How is it that people here find me very likable?

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f**k. You.

i disagree with that.

What do you expect people to tell you when you post here?

I hate myself. I didn't even have the balls to off myself. One way of looking at it is that I want permission to die.

Well you won't get that here. You do want to live though, on some subconscious level.

I really don't understand why you'd want to.

I have every f****n' reason to.

Disliking yourself is not a valid reason.

We have to stay positive otherwise we become distructive and no longer attract positive circumstances or things we want in life. If someone gives you a suggestion of something that may help you, try it. If it doesn't work for you, try something else until you find what works. Look inside and find some piece of spirit which doesn't want to give up no matter what, some kind of warrior energy and use it to fight for yourself.

Personally I think you have a lot of negative thoughts of ANTS (automatic negative thoughts). Here is a document taken from a series called overcoming social anxiety, I found it very good for dealing with negative thoughts. I still have them every now and then, but then I recognise that I'm having them and then pull myself out. Read this to yourself several times a day out loud and you'll start to notice a difference in the way you feel:

ANTS Handout
If you want the full course I can send it to you.

Yeah he seems like he's going out of his way to make himself unlikeable. I think people just mindlessly saying "You're likeable" doesn't mean s**t cuz it just comes across as lip service. It's ret*d that so many people claim how logical and brutally honest they are compared to irrational NT's that beat around the bush, yet they're so quick to jump to lip service when someone feels bad in the haven rather than actually giving a solid response.

Why exactly do you think you're unlikeable? Can you be more specific than just saying you're no good? And what's stopping you from working on em if you do genuinely have these flaws?

How am I supposed to like or dislike you if you don't even express yourself as a person? You express how you feel about yourself, but you don't express who you are. I dunno your hobbies, interests, character, etc so what judgment do you expect me to make?

I'll tell you straight up that I think it's pathetic that you're going out of your way to make yourself unlikeable and deliberately making it hard to reach out to you, but other than that I don't know you enough to say whether I like or dislike you. That's one flaw you have, but you need to open up about yourself cuz I dunno anything else about you to judge you entirely as a person. So what you need to do is just be yourself and then people will have something to judge on whether or not you're likeable.