sbarne3 wrote:
Ah yes... loneliness... I know it all too well...
I, like many others on here have mentioned, still live at home with my parents (I'm in my early 30's) and I too get embarrassed about it sometimes, but honestly I know that I would have a difficult time coping with the day to day things if I was on my own
And frankly... who wants to live alone? Especially an aspergian who gets so little social interaction anyway... I think I would just shrivel up and die if I had to do that.
I recently wrote a poem about the inherent contradictions of solitude at a time when I was feeling especially lonely... Its written in a way that I think every aspergian can relate to...
I posted it on here somewhere, but I don't have the link at the moment so I will just repost it...
The Conflict
I will keep out the chaos and shield you from the love.
I bring comfort... and peace... and discontentment.
I will never ridicule you and never praise.
Rest in my arms... I will swallow you in my weariness.
I ask for nothing in return... only your life.
I am the enemy.
I am a trusted friend.
I am solitude.
good poem...
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