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31 Jan 2011, 11:00 pm

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If you are an aspie or autistic I recommend pets. This thread tells you that. Pets help me cope.


dogs bite me and generally disrespect me, and cats shed, drool and make me sneeze my head off.



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31 Jan 2011, 11:49 pm

I would be unable to properly care for a pet due to depression.



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01 Feb 2011, 12:33 am

What do you recomend to someone thaat cant stand animals for over 5 minutes then?



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01 Feb 2011, 12:55 am

The aquistion of social skills and the desire to test them out via practical experiment!

Unfortunately that is easier said than done and there is probably a fascinating article on Wikipedia to read! (sarcasm)



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02 Feb 2011, 4:18 am

auntblabby wrote:
SaNcheNuSS wrote:
If you are an aspie or autistic I recommend pets. This thread tells you that. Pets help me cope.


dogs bite me and generally disrespect me, and cats shed, drool and make me sneeze my head off.


Reptiles are cool. Iguanas can be trained if you get one when it's a baby. Plus, they're intimidating as guard animals :wink: . I had one that I trained to sit on my shoulder.

So if I ever got burgled I could say, Don't come near me or my miniature dinosaur will whip you in the face.



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02 Feb 2011, 4:21 am

I have a maltese-poodle mixed dog whom I love dearly. :D :heart:

I have recently realized that I'm much better off alone, and am no longer sad or depressed, so no need to cope. ;) I don't like caged animals though, because I always forget to feed them then they die. :oops: I prefer pets that can sit on your lap and roam the house freely, like cats and dogs mostly.



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06 Feb 2011, 2:12 am

Ah yes... loneliness... I know it all too well...

I, like many others on here have mentioned, still live at home with my parents (I'm in my early 30's) and I too get embarrassed about it sometimes, but honestly I know that I would have a difficult time coping with the day to day things if I was on my own

And frankly... who wants to live alone? Especially an aspergian who gets so little social interaction anyway... I think I would just shrivel up and die if I had to do that.

I recently wrote a poem about the inherent contradictions of solitude at a time when I was feeling especially lonely... Its written in a way that I think every aspergian can relate to...
I posted it on here somewhere, but I don't have the link at the moment so I will just repost it...

The Conflict
I will keep out the chaos and shield you from the love.
I bring comfort... and peace... and discontentment.
I will never ridicule you and never praise.
Rest in my arms... I will swallow you in my weariness.
I ask for nothing in return... only your life.
I am the enemy.
I am a trusted friend.
I am solitude.



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06 Feb 2011, 11:53 am

sbarne3 wrote:
Ah yes... loneliness... I know it all too well...

I, like many others on here have mentioned, still live at home with my parents (I'm in my early 30's) and I too get embarrassed about it sometimes, but honestly I know that I would have a difficult time coping with the day to day things if I was on my own

And frankly... who wants to live alone? Especially an aspergian who gets so little social interaction anyway... I think I would just shrivel up and die if I had to do that.

I recently wrote a poem about the inherent contradictions of solitude at a time when I was feeling especially lonely... Its written in a way that I think every aspergian can relate to...
I posted it on here somewhere, but I don't have the link at the moment so I will just repost it...

The Conflict
I will keep out the chaos and shield you from the love.
I bring comfort... and peace... and discontentment.
I will never ridicule you and never praise.
Rest in my arms... I will swallow you in my weariness.
I ask for nothing in return... only your life.
I am the enemy.
I am a trusted friend.
I am solitude.


good poem...


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06 Feb 2011, 10:11 pm

Titangeek wrote:
good poem...


thank you! :)