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04 Feb 2011, 10:27 pm

Erisad wrote:

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Erisad wrote:

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I would suggest not worrying about your sexual issues rite now. It's possible that things going on in your life could of caused sexual problems. Try not to worry about finding someone either rite now. Give yourself time to get over him & focus on other things going on in your life instead. I've been a lot happier lately sense I quit worrying about being alone & trying to find someone; it caused a lot of stress & problems for me that I'm much better off without.
Also avoid looking in the mirror more than you have to to do hair & stuff. Mirrors can make the most beautiful person feel ugly because they have a knack for only showing certain things & they do not show all the beauty.
I know what you mean about being left alone. I'm not going to post about how it relates to me here because you've seen a lot of my post but I would highly recommended that you try to keep yourself occupied with something. Force yourself to do whatever school work you need to, go to the gym when you can, spend time on WP chatting with online friends ect. Do NOT give up or give in to the emotional stress & depression because that can make things a lot worse. If you need someone to talk to you can PM me.

I would do my school work now but when my adderall wears off I can't focus on anything productive. D:

Have you been on that a while? It might could be causing some side-effects with weight gain & the sexual stuff perhaps. I was never on that but i tried a few other ADHD meds & they made my problems focusing worse when the med wore off.

I was on Ritalin from age 3 to 16, then I was switched to adderall. So I've been treated for ADHD for almost my entire life. I don't think I'll ever be able to be remotely successful without those pills. >.<

I understand I was just tossing ideas/suggestions/theories out

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04 Feb 2011, 10:27 pm

I know. I was just explaining stuff.

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04 Feb 2011, 10:37 pm

I'm sorry I don't have anymore helpful advice

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04 Feb 2011, 10:39 pm

nick007 wrote:

I'm sorry I don't have anymore helpful advice

It's okay. At least you tried and that helps in itself.

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05 Feb 2011, 6:25 am

don't give up on yourself...

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05 Feb 2011, 7:10 am

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He was able to get me close and then the feeling vanishes. >.<

Have you tried clit work? Because it's a lot easier to have a clitorial orgasm than a vaginal one.. I mean in the sense of NOTICING it.

Vaginal orgasms are contractions, they are quite small for me. The clit one is the explosion. I have been through the same problems you have, and I didn't have one until I was 24.

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05 Feb 2011, 7:14 am

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I was never able to orgasm, even on my own. I try but I get nowhere. He was able to get me close and then the feeling vanishes. >.<

My mother tried teaching me and gave up saying that she can't handle it.

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05 Feb 2011, 7:31 am

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Pretty sure she meant driving.

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05 Feb 2011, 8:53 am

oh bless.

*hugs*

things always get better, even if it doesn't seem like it.

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05 Feb 2011, 10:43 am

hale_bopp wrote:

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Pretty sure she meant driving.

Yeah, I meant driving. That's why that is a separate line from the top section. :lol:

I try clit work and it doesn't really do anything. I'm worried that I'm numb down there or something. D:

em - yeah. I don't like waiting. I need signals that things will get better otherwise I don't believe it. I did start up a new OkCupid account (I was stupid and deleted the old one as soon as he told me to. I'm so f*****g dumb.) and I just don't feel the same excitement with filling out the profile and answering the questions. I didn't even fill everything out and I got a message saying "someone chose you on OkCupid Match!" Really? All I really have is my picture there. You really don't care about my personality or anything? Ugh. Pigs.

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05 Feb 2011, 10:45 am

i still can't believe he let his mother control him like that, it's still irritating to me.
& well, fill it out properly, and you'll have the men flocking.

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05 Feb 2011, 10:49 am

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i still can't believe he let his mother control him like that, it's still irritating to me.
& well, fill it out properly, and you'll have the men flocking.

It's still incredibly painful for me. :'(

"fill it out"...like my jeans. f*****g muffin top, I hate yooooooooooou. D:

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05 Feb 2011, 10:56 am

Erisad wrote:

emlion wrote:

i still can't believe he let his mother control him like that, it's still irritating to me.
& well, fill it out properly, and you'll have the men flocking.

It's still incredibly painful for me. :'(

"fill it out"...like my jeans. f***ing muffin top, I hate yooooooooooou. D:

hey come on, don't be like that.
muffin top? so what. better than being a bag of bones.
and you're smart, funny, pretty, intelligent.
there are decent men out there, you'll find one/one will find you.
& keep ranting; it's good for the soul!

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05 Feb 2011, 11:02 am

emlion wrote:

Erisad wrote:

emlion wrote:

i still can't believe he let his mother control him like that, it's still irritating to me.
& well, fill it out properly, and you'll have the men flocking.

It's still incredibly painful for me. :'(

"fill it out"...like my jeans. f***ing muffin top, I hate yooooooooooou. D:

Muffins are only attractive in bakeries/coffee shops! D:

Ow. My head hurts. >.<

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05 Feb 2011, 11:02 am

stop your head hurting by getting drunk. :wink:

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05 Feb 2011, 11:05 am

emlion wrote:

stop your head hurting by getting drunk. :wink:

I don't have any booooze. I live in a dorm on a "dry campus." If I'm caught with alcohol I'll get kicked out of my major. Basically, my school's a butt. I wish I could keep smirnoff in my fridge.

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