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You didn't actually send that script, did you? I really hope the script you've presented is just hypothetical, a rehearsal of how you might expect the conversation to go. Don't send the script, or any other communication. The best response at this point is silence.

By the way, the term for minors is "jailbait". Some rotten minors know they can get guys in trouble even if they're just one or two years older, if they're on opposite sides of that magic 18 year line. They'll use that brief window of time, in which they're old enough to plausibly present themselves as legal adults, but not old enough to be officially legal yet, to extort or otherwise be abusive. Don't run this idea by her, either.

This. Seriously LotM- I know you're angry about her comments but you come across as quite frightening. If you don't stop, they will have a case for harrassment/intimidation.



You could get into huge trouble with this bullying campaign. You've admitted yourself that this girl is very young- young people are stupid sometimes. A simple word from the boss would probably have stopped this in its tracks. What you are doing is illegal.

Wait, so it's illegal to sue parents of the minor for slander? It's illegal to try and keep talking to them after they keep slandering you? It's illegal to try and sort it out with them before you take it to court? Am I following you right?

That at me? If it is, I suggest you go back and read what I wrote (and the quoted text)

It seems Shayna has unblocked me for some reason. I can think of two explanations for this:
1. Someone told her about what I said about her blocking me and she wanted to erase the evidence.
2. She's offering a truce.

Now that I think about it, it probably is a good idea to just leave her alone. Getting into a war with a minor is a bad idea. People will look at me and think "Oh look, here's this predator blowing up at this teenage girl because she rejected him." Not the kind of image I want to project.

My new plan is to just walk up to her tomorrow and say "Hey, Shayna? Don't fu¢k with me.", then walk off. I've been blowing this out of proportion and thinking she's bent on destroying me, when for all I know it could have been just a dumb impulse decision on her part.

No, don't say that. If you have the opportunity, it might be worth listening to how she tries to explain herself, but don't say anything. Unblocking you might be a trap, too.




That's quite some impulse. Even if she's impulsive, she wouldn't accuse you of sexual assment if she liked you. Then again, maybe teenagers really aren't all that smart these days.

Some puns:

Harass = her ass
Harassment = assment
You can't spell assault without ass!
Can I ass you something?

http://www.southparkstudios.com/full-episodes/s03e06-sexual-harassment-panda

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Good idea


Not such a good idea. You don't need to say anything more to this girl and the more you stay away, the better.

Shayna doesn't like me anymore. She hates my guts.

3. She's setting you up to prove to people that you're crazy and dangerous. Don't contact her. In fact, just delete her.


Now that I think about it, it probably is a good idea to just leave her alone. Getting into a war with a minor is a bad idea. People will look at me and think "Oh look, here's this predator blowing up at this teenage girl because she rejected him." Not the kind of image I want to project.



NO. Don't do this. STOP PERPETUATING THE PROBLEM. Do not initiate contact with her and ignore her or be professional and cordial if she tries to engage you.

Exactly. The only reason, for a person who HATES YOUR GUTS to keep you as a "friend" on Facebook and UNBLOCK you, is to set you up so you'll go and say all those things we're telling you not to say. It's an obvious setup. Just imagine that anything you say will be seen by her brother, her father, her new boyfriend, a team of police officers, and a judge. I recommend deleting her from your "friends" list and not interacting with her at all at work.

Did she like you before? How do you know? Why would she hate you now if she liked you before?

Maybe she hated you right from the start. Why did you approach her at all and give her an opportunity to accuse you of something? Why didn't you pick up on her dislike of you? That's the problem with hidden negative stuff. If only you knew it, some of the "hot" women wouldn't seem nearly so attractive. Hidden stuff includes negative feelings like hate and character issues such as lying a lot, and also unhealthy behaviors like doing hard drugs, all hidden behind an outwardly pleasant demeanor and perfectly combed hair. We may have trouble picking up on that.

Something like this makes me glad that I don't leave the house, let alone have a job. Life can't get better, but it can surely get worse.