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I never want to get hurt, that's one thing.
I'm sick and tired of being a 24-year-old virgin, and I'm about to f***ing explode at this point! I'm so sick and tired of seeing everyone else getting laid but me! What the f**k do I have to do? If I get a full-blown relationship, so be it. But why does it have to be so intimidating?
Yeah I get that. The whole not wanting to be hurt comment.
Imo, sex in some ways is overrated. Don't get me wrong--its special if you're with someone you love or care about, but other than that its just the bodies way of trying to reproduce and happens to feel good (with the right partner), condom/bc pill be damned.
There isn't a standard you should go by here. There's a negative stereotype that if you're a virgin you're some loser nerd who sits in their room and plays dungeons and dragons 24/7. This is a standard set by some idiots in society who have several kids by different partners, stds and want your life to be just like theirs.