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24 Jun 2011, 10:57 pm

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Sounds to me like panic attacks, anxiety and depression. The three go together hand in hand. I know it too well as my sister is this way. Please do try to visit a therapist or psychiatrist to get treatment on this. If you have the same thing my sister has then I can tell you one pill makes that fear of things go away and it will over time help you overcome the depression and anxiety as you will not have the added burden of the panic attacks.


I agree, it does indeed sound like that.... however, I'd like to point out that drugs against anxiety, such as benzodiazepines, are very addictive, and with serious other side-effects, if overused, and so should be used only when very much needed. However, I do know that they may be very helpful, if used with care... they should just never be used frequently, nor as the only solution.

Are you doing any better, now? I know how panic attacks can be, myself, too, except mine have been with different themes, when I used to have them... also, avoid caffeine, when you feel on the edge... caffeine really can increase anxiety.



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24 Jun 2011, 11:32 pm

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You doing alright sasha?


no but its not cause of the panic attacks...

its cause of my friend just they wont talk to me or anything anymore. we talked like 9+ hours a day everyday...and now they just wont. they said they cared about me and that were friends and everything....

i just think i really needed to talk to this person. its the only person i really talked to and it helped alot in some ways. now theres no one really... :cry: :cry: :cry: it just sucks i really liked talking to them...

and they wont tell me why or anything. they just wont write to me at all...



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24 Jun 2011, 11:52 pm

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Dantac wrote:
You doing alright sasha?


no but its not cause of the panic attacks...

its cause of my friend just they wont talk to me or anything anymore. we talked like 9+ hours a day everyday...and now they just wont. they said they cared about me and that were friends and everything....

i just think i really needed to talk to this person. its the only person i really talked to and it helped alot in some ways. now theres no one really... :cry: :cry: :cry: it just sucks i really liked talking to them...

and they wont tell me why or anything. they just wont write to me at all...


Maybe those 9 hours a day have burned them out? I think you can agree it sounds a wee bit too much. Even chatting must be done with some moderation ;)

Give them a bit of time they'll get in contact with you again... and also, this can tell you that those that do not are not really friend material to begin with.

In the meantime.. you got us! :D



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25 Jun 2011, 12:33 am

Dantac wrote:
MyDogSasha wrote:
Dantac wrote:
You doing alright sasha?


no but its not cause of the panic attacks...

its cause of my friend just they wont talk to me or anything anymore. we talked like 9+ hours a day everyday...and now they just wont. they said they cared about me and that were friends and everything....

i just think i really needed to talk to this person. its the only person i really talked to and it helped alot in some ways. now theres no one really... :cry: :cry: :cry: it just sucks i really liked talking to them...

and they wont tell me why or anything. they just wont write to me at all...


Maybe those 9 hours a day have burned them out? I think you can agree it sounds a wee bit too much. Even chatting must be done with some moderation ;)

Give them a bit of time they'll get in contact with you again... and also, this can tell you that those that do not are not really friend material to begin with.

In the meantime.. you got us! :D


They said to not talk to them...they said there not talking to me again. i dont get it. i dont know why. and they dont have to talk to me 9 hrs a day....they wanted to. even if its just a hour thats ok. whyd they lie then whyd they say they cared and there my friend if im not. why do people always do that? why do they have to lie :?: :cry:



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25 Jun 2011, 10:47 am

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They said to not talk to them...they said there not talking to me again. i dont get it. i dont know why. and they dont have to talk to me 9 hrs a day....they wanted to. even if its just a hour thats ok. whyd they lie then whyd they say they cared and there my friend if im not. why do people always do that? why do they have to lie :?: :cry:


:( . I guess that only proves they aren't really friends material.. thats just mean to tell you they wont talk to you anymore.

Time to make new friends then 8)