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hyperlexian
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01 Aug 2011, 8:57 pm

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you mean something to us, you know? you bring happiness and comfort to us on WP and FB when we are down. it would affect us deeply if you were gone.

you are such a caring and thoughtful and an intelligent and talented person, i think that people in real life would suffer greatly at your absence also.

i don't throw around these words to everyone. you might think i just lay it on thick to everyone who is depressed, but i don't hang around the Haven handing out reassurances like candy. i have to really care about someone to say something to them. you really are special and important to me.

i can tell you exactly how to kill yourself, etc. but that won't help you. you need to get real-life assistance to stay alive. you need to tell your therapist about your specific suicidal thoughts and actions ASAP, or call a distress line, etc. we can only do so much for you here.

remember that your heartbreaking situation is temporary. it will heal with time.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))


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01 Aug 2011, 9:32 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
NO

you mean something to us, you know? you bring happiness and comfort to us on WP and FB when we are down. it would affect us deeply if you were gone.

you are such a caring and thoughtful and an intelligent and talented person, i think that people in real life would suffer greatly at your absence also.

i don't throw around these words to everyone. you might think i just lay it on thick to everyone who is depressed, but i don't hang around the Haven handing out reassurances like candy. i have to really care about someone to say something to them. you really are special and important to me.

i can tell you exactly how to kill yourself, etc. but that won't help you. you need to get real-life assistance to stay alive. you need to tell your therapist about your specific suicidal thoughts and actions ASAP, or call a distress line, etc. we can only do so much for you here.

remember that your heartbreaking situation is temporary. it will heal with time.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))


this^ so much of this!! !!



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01 Aug 2011, 10:26 pm

Keep living and keep smiling! :)


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02 Aug 2011, 2:38 am

hyperlexian wrote:
NO

you mean something to us, you know? you bring happiness and comfort to us on WP and FB when we are down. it would affect us deeply if you were gone.

you are such a caring and thoughtful and an intelligent and talented person, i think that people in real life would suffer greatly at your absence also.

i don't throw around these words to everyone. you might think i just lay it on thick to everyone who is depressed, but i don't hang around the Haven handing out reassurances like candy. i have to really care about someone to say something to them. you really are special and important to me.

i can tell you exactly how to kill yourself, etc. but that won't help you. you need to get real-life assistance to stay alive. you need to tell your therapist about your specific suicidal thoughts and actions ASAP, or call a distress line, etc. we can only do so much for you here.

remember that your heartbreaking situation is temporary. it will heal with time.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))


I like u, Hyperlexian! U r a very nice person! I know this isn't about me, but u seem to give great advice and ur very helpful! U were one of the first people to talk to me! I think u were the first actually when we talked about Hot in the City. U r cool! :)


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02 Aug 2011, 7:00 am

BillyIdolFan217 wrote:
I like u, Hyperlexian! U r a very nice person! I know this isn't about me, but u seem to give great advice and ur very helpful! U were one of the first people to talk to me! I think u were the first actually when we talked about Hot in the City. U r cool! :)

thank you. :oops: you are quite awesome too!


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02 Aug 2011, 7:47 am

hyperlexian wrote:
NO

you mean something to us, you know? you bring happiness and comfort to us on WP and FB when we are down. it would affect us deeply if you were gone.

you are such a caring and thoughtful and an intelligent and talented person, i think that people in real life would suffer greatly at your absence also.

i don't throw around these words to everyone. you might think i just lay it on thick to everyone who is depressed, but i don't hang around the Haven handing out reassurances like candy. i have to really care about someone to say something to them. you really are special and important to me.

i can tell you exactly how to kill yourself, etc. but that won't help you. you need to get real-life assistance to stay alive. you need to tell your therapist about your specific suicidal thoughts and actions ASAP, or call a distress line, etc. we can only do so much for you here.

remember that your heartbreaking situation is temporary. it will heal with time.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))


Thank you. This means a lot. I did tell the therapist about the specific issues. I don't really want to die. You are a great support.I will keep in mind that it is temporary even though it's hard to believe at the moment. Logically I know you are right. You are an unbelievably kind person yourself.



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02 Aug 2011, 7:49 am

Don't kill yourself. I have been suicidal many times in my life. Luckily I never committed suicide. I also like Lady Gaga.



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02 Aug 2011, 4:06 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
thank you. :oops: you are quite awesome too!


Thank u!!


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02 Aug 2011, 4:26 pm

I am struggling with a very similar demon a lot of the time.
The one thing that works for me is to nurture hope, or put simply:
to find something to look forward to, anything.
Concentrate on what you love. Good mental hygiene is key.

You are a beautiful and kind human being, you are part of the solution,
don't write yourself off!


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02 Aug 2011, 5:56 pm

cornelius6 wrote:
I am struggling with a very similar demon a lot of the time.
The one thing that works for me is to nurture hope, or put simply:
to find something to look forward to, anything.
Concentrate on what you love. Good mental hygiene is key.

You are a beautiful and kind human being, you are part of the solution,
don't write yourself off!


Thank you, Cornelius. I am not feeling so kind now but thank you. I am feeling disgusted with myself and the way my interactions with some people naturally go. Oh I don't know. Nobody is bad but I don't know. I am sorry you are struggling in the same way. You have very good insight into things that might help though. I will concentrate on what I love. Your poem thread was a good opportunity to do that. I am no poet but it's in the vein of things I love, replicating beauty I guess you could say.

Oh thank you you're just too nice.



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02 Aug 2011, 6:52 pm

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cornelius6 wrote:
I am struggling with a very similar demon a lot of the time.
The one thing that works for me is to nurture hope, or put simply:
to find something to look forward to, anything.
Concentrate on what you love. Good mental hygiene is key.

You are a beautiful and kind human being, you are part of the solution,
don't write yourself off!


Thank you, Cornelius. I am not feeling so kind now but thank you. I am feeling disgusted with myself and the way my interactions with some people naturally go. Oh I don't know. Nobody is bad but I don't know. I am sorry you are struggling in the same way. You have very good insight into things that might help though. I will concentrate on what I love. Your poem thread was a good opportunity to do that. I am no poet but it's in the vein of things I love, replicating beauty I guess you could say.

Oh thank you you're just too nice.
plz send a link to said poetry thread. I'd love to discuss that too :D not as a poet but as a collector of sorts.


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02 Aug 2011, 9:28 pm

Hi F.-N., here's a link to Cornelius's poetry thread. Sonnet thread to be exact.

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt170114.html



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02 Aug 2011, 10:30 pm

Hang in there :) I know life can really suck sometimes, but do try to get through this.

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03 Aug 2011, 5:27 pm

i don't think i'd kill myself over bad feelings but if i knew things were never going to work out i probably would to spare myself the endless waiting. Maybe if i ever truly give up.