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My pulse? Haha well if people knew I am really healthy. Supplements, protein shakes, superfoods and lot of veggies and fruits. etc etc. I am doing fitness. I am BIG. I mean muscular. If its impossible.

Yea I understand what you mean, making sure I am still alive. I have no idea to be honest. The way they send me messages isn't really checking out. It more of come and by. There one is a serious discussion.

In addition. Why such environment has to be so competitive and judgemental?

This girl (never met) who organised the subject social night here at uni which I am in same class. She invited all the people in subject and the faculty (in similar mode of study). She did invited me, theres few professors and lecturers and tutors invited as well. She never responded my messages on that event page in conjunction to her clear and content arrogant responses to other people instead of me. Why left me out?

How so POSSIBLE for those people including her observe aspie traits so easily? Whats the f**k is going on this world? Why reject reject me so much since I have done NOTHING. I haven't stalked, I haven't made any consequences within the class, I have not broken a law or policy, I have been studying and doing assignments in my room at the college, and I have been hanging out with my friends.

So what make you think, for person like her has to be so competitive on FB for organising the subject/faculty social event? I am completely relevant to that event, without knowing what problems between me and her because we never talked or that before.

I need answers now, what is going on? Why so many problems happening to me these days? I haven't done a thing :S

It is baffling.
Perhaps it is that she is some kind of a snobby person, that it is not something you should be taking personally.
Or, she thinks if she connects with you she will give you the impression she wants to date you, or something, and doesn't want to give a wrong impression.
Just a couple of ideas there, but really, I don't know.

Facebook is an issue generally. NT people have problems there too, as it does bring out the worst in people.
Remember you are not tied to it, plenty of people are content without being on Facebook.

Yea. I left Myspace years ago because people were copying my information on it and created a website behind my back for laughingstock. FB hasn't got this issue due to high level of privacy, but this case it just people being idiots and that.

I can't wait to get my degree done this year so I head to US for working holiday. That should change my life easier.

Wow, that's really nasty, about MySpace. I never had any problems there, and much preferred it to FB.
(Visual choices, much more a creative place, and great for finding new music.)

Yea big time man. So I changed the way I use FB now. Only see as communication source like emailing and bit of blogging. My recent status (similar to previous post about it) have 15 likes now, which considered my record! I believe its something what My absence being around on FB and not posting much is likely to get people involved with me.

So, for you aspies this is your skill about FB. Don't post too much, either on your wall or others or in groups etc. It makes you seem more creepy, too attentive, desperate for communication and that etc.

Slow down and use FB as a communication method.

Hm.
When I tried FB, I posted maybe twice, all up. Not much.
But I found it annoying when people posted on my wall, the news feed was horrendous, while status updates are absurd to me..
Basically, completely pointless for me to be on FB.

Were your friend's posts on your wall was irrelevant? Like stereotypical? Mythical? Voyeuristic? Or related?

Yea my news feed is a same. I tend to delete some friend if he or she kept updating and updating of those crappy statuses which talk about BS stuff.

The wall posts were friendly, mostly decent etc.

One friend thinks it's funny to be seeming offensive while being friendly, which doesn't work in a public context at all. I mean, everyone looks at your wall...classmates, colleagues, potential bosses, teachers, everyone...so, it's abit like marketing yourself with your page, and one therefore wants the socially decent friends posting on there, not so much the crazy-rude ones..

The news feed was shocking..just finding out all the really low stuff that people are getting up to, which is just plain scary to me, and then all the pointless and, sorry, but absolutely daft games that people get up to, and invite me to join in on. Um, nice, but no thankyou...

Same here but all posts on my wall are actually decent and friendly.

News feed is worst of all as being on FB, since the upgrade of FB from the original setting in 2009 was more relevant compared to today. Not sure there lack of understanding for most of people how to use the social tool. Some people I seen post nude photographs for their arts projects on their pages, people thought my approach was sexual. But I was not. Because they see this job as sexual. However, instantaneously they use voyeuristic communication while they were being drunk on FB. I seen my lesbian friend from Hawaii she always talk about sexual stuff with her brothers and sister including her friends late at night. Talking about all of that girls on girls action and that kind of stuff.

No wonder if the person have awesome social skills and drinks alcohol as FB member does link to sexual relations with people. Its similar analogy to smoking ciggerettes. So to me I find it bit fun, but at same time no one wants me to be involved. Okay so FB shut the f**k up?