Aspies mockery at uni and college

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I know lot of people who bullied, harassed and insulted me and other aspies/disabled people from the past they have now girlfriends, children, engaged or married. Me nowhere near as successful as that!? That just shocking to me! Why bullies and that kind of people easily get successful than me? Why can't women see something right or whatever? I don't understand this.......maybe I should bully people then so I can get same result as them?

Its biological, we are animals driven by hormones. The bullying asserts superiority to attract a mate. But we also have free will and can overcome the base stuff.

You don't want a girlfriend who hasn't figured that out yet, so you aren't unsuccessful, you are slow and sure moving.

If the bullies have grown up and changed and are now married then be happy for them. If they haven't, those are not happy marriages and you should pity them cos thats not successful. They will be unhappy people and unhappy families.

Some of those women, will realise they really dont want their alpha males, they overcome their biology, use their heads, move on, and look for intelligence and sensitivity.

Your uni does sound backwards (I was at Uni in UK 20 years ago, and the a***holes you describe would have been a small drunk minority of rugby players) , but please ignore these people and focus on growing yourself.

People like that, I just ignore them like the idiots they are.

If you try to bully people, it will backfire on you.
When I was a kid, it seemed like everyone got away with being mean to me. But the second I tried to behave like them, I got NAILED by everyone for daring to behave that way.
It's the nature of it all.

I think people will write stupid s**t on a noticeboard all day if they had one. We have one at our local univesity and I kept writing silly s**t on it all day long (NEVER offensive stuff) just because I could.

The person who wrote that on your notice probably did so because he is to damn scared to talk to you directly, which is something ive noticed. A lot of people shy away from me because I am "odd" and usually carpet their insecure ass along the cool guys trail just because. We had such a dimwit in our psychology class. A class act clown who kept tearing me to pieces because he was so darn douche. The laughy "I never get sad" type (yes you do..) type.

It ended in me aggrevating him several times and I got paid in full, the difference was that at Uni, you cant openly harrass people, so they do it behind your back. High school, now thats painful (and stupid, we dont need 3 extra pointless years..).

I am relieved because at Uni, you can go about your day and not give a f**k.

Just let it go, people are people and they would have done the same if the sign said:

join our..

..lesbo

..black etc..

..latino

and so on.

People are scared to death to distinguish themselves.

I thought so. Its more of emotional and mentality issues at the uni rather than high school which attributes physical attention.

Ignore the haters. Do not let their childish, pathetic insults get to you.

People like that never change...
I can't even see the written stuff on that notice.
I always find that these people somehow attract young females...
Mind they probably deserve each other if these girls think the same way as these jerk males.