being ugly

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I had a truly HORRIBLE mop of ginger hair in my youth and hated the way I looked.
Thank god it's now mostly all fallen out and what's left has faded to a light brown. lol
I've always envied beautiful people; it must give them a massive boost to self confidence.

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In my experience, you're only as ugly as those around you claim you to be. Which would make me the 3rd ugliest man in human history. Behind "The Elephant Man" and TV's Rosie O'Donnell.

As other people have said, there are many other attributes more important than physical beauty.

But if you're the girl with the clown nose, well then, now i've got empirical evidence that allows me to say, you're not ugly . Seriously.

What about me? Am I ugly?



Nah, I'm not ugly. Just fat.

You might 'feel' as though you're ugly inside, but whatever you feel about yourself on the inside, you don't look ugly at all to my imperfect eyes. Not a bit of it; quite the opposite in fact. You look attractive and fanciable.

An incredibly good chance that this guy felt bad that he couldn't get your number and tried to be as mean to you as possible to make himself feel better.

Also, friends joke and call each other ugly all the time if they're close enough. I'm not going to lie, physical appearance doesn't matter that much to me, but i've seen the ugliest people (aethestically) call the most attractive people ugly, cuz they were joking or very insecure.

I've also seen beautiful people (aesthetically) put themselves down because of abuse, insecurity or flat out mistreatment. As hard as it is to believe, if someone hasn't called someone beautiful before--its generally more because they're afraid to put themselves on the spot.

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More than likely, I would say. Whatever else she might or might not be, she is a very good-looking gal.

Nobody is ugly. People can have an ugly personality but nobody looks ugly. People can look unique or exotic especially in this day and age. You don't have to look like the cookie cutter model image that shallow people think of as beautiful.

Maybe it's just that I'm hideous on the inside and so I see it on the outside. Maybe I have body dysmorphic disorder. I don't even know. I hate seeing my face. I hate looking at my reflection. It's just like I see this deformed monster. I'm frightening looking.

I've said it before privately and I'll say it again publicly - you are a beautiful woman.
You have the same problem I and others have... you don't see the same thing in the mirror that others see.
People also say mean things that are complete lies to try and kick you down, thinking it raises them up. Some will be jealous of how attractive you are and call you ugly in hopes you'll crawl under a rock and remove yourself from the "competition"... which appears has happened.

I don't know what else to say... you won't believe us after telling you a few times. You need to change the way you think about yourself... I don't know what will do that since everyone is different.

I'm sad to see you not seeing the good things... I hope you do and start enjoying life again! [hugs]

You, Vigilans, and Hyperlexian were the three people I'd shown my picture to, and you all said extremely kind things. The three of you are attractive people both inside and out and that should have some merit when it comes to what to believe about how I look but I just.. I want to say it must be flattering photographs or something. I've had a handful of people seem to think I'm pretty but at the same time what is it ever going to matter what people see if all there is in the mirror is some hideous beast?

Sometimes I think I'd be happier if I were pretty but I don't even think that makes the most beautiful people happy.

I'm ugly too

No, you don't have to look like that. You'll just be endlessly mistreated if you don't.

I don't think I'm ugly as such, but I do often feel ashamed of my face. I worry that I have a more masculine look, my face looks long and goes down into a point at the chin, like the bottom side of a loveheart. I feel that other females have a more rounded face. Then I worry if that might be the reason why other women keep staring or laughing at me. But it's probably my low self-esteem playing about with my imagination, I probably look no different to any other female in that way.

This is so ridiculous. Insomnia and obsessive thoughts leading tp fantasizing about suicide

Its depression getting you down, you are not ugly.

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