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SomethingWitty
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11 Nov 2012, 10:45 am

The answer to this question is always no, no matter what hurdles you face, no matter what life is throwing at you. Everyone is worth more than that, it does get better!
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11 Nov 2012, 3:12 pm

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95% of people dated by the time they're 18. I'm 20 and never dated. This probably means there's no way I'll ever be able to find a date. I don't see how the 95% is possible since dating is so competitive though.

The meaning of my life since preschool was to go out on a date and I can't even do that.

I feel that everyone on this forum likes their life but me.



Wow there are so many things to do I enjoy hiking, marathons, music, art, reading, writing, scrabble online, cryptic crosswords, animals etc etc... Don't look down on your talents you can use them to the best of your ability and find more to interest you... BTW I had a hard time too - I'm 49 and was only diagnosed at 46. I never dated at your age and came out as gay in my late 20's, meeting my soul mate at age 33. Although we are not currently living in the same city, we're still together in spirit and I miss him! I think he's also an Aspie as he doesn't like crowds of people and never enjoyed office parties or "tem-building" events.

Join a hobby group, volunteer to help a charity that's close to your heart, whatever your interest might be. I wish you success and happiness.... :)



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11 Nov 2012, 10:54 pm

I'm 38 and I've never been on a date. Don't sweat it.

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11 Nov 2012, 11:51 pm

No. No. No. Don't even try it. It's not worth it, trust me. I don't even know you, but I promise you if someone here were to mention that you went and killed yourself, I would be upset. That's just how I am.



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12 Nov 2012, 6:01 am

my answer:no no no NOOOOOOOOOOO , not worth dying for
im 27 soon 28 years old, and i have at the most hugged a boy.
i never been on a date and may never go on one. Not that we go on dates where i come from.
but life is long and incredible things happen everyday.
How don't you know it's gonna happen one day?
do you do social things? meeting people is what you should think of first. the rest will fall into place some how. Love comes to you, you just need to keep your eyes open.
do fun stuff while your waiting. If i got hang up on meeting someone i would be misrable.(which i am and i am sure other people are here anyways half of the time)
the right boy or girl will come to you.
relax..you are young go out and dance in the rain or something. :lol:


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12 Nov 2012, 2:51 pm

No. Maybe you should find a new meaning with your life, try to see life beyond the whole idea of dating.