Just realized nobody cares about me

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This isn't about me,Sethno. It's about 404nf, and I'm not an attention seeker, plus it doesn't matter what happens to me.
404nf, you're doing well with not expecting much, because the more you expect for people to treat you well, the more disappointed you'll get when you see that that is not going to happen. They come only when they need something from you, because that's what everybody does. People only go after their own interests. I even doubt that there could be someone who could be genuine, and with good intentions, not trying to take something from you, or use you, or stuff like that. People are like that; that's why I said no one cares about anybody. You think that others prefer talking with others instead of you, but that is just appearances. It's not that bright. Why? Because they talk badly and gossip about their "friends" behind their backs, instead of saying things to their faces.



Next time they laugh about you, laugh about them, and say you don't need their nonsense, and walk away with your head held high. They sure won't expect that, and will leave them speechless.
You have to do everything alone, you say? Here's a quote: We enter the world alone, we leave the world alone. So, it's better to be alone.
Because it's the truth: No one cares about anybody.

I care. I think most people do. If you need an extra granny please feel free to pm me any time.

^I'd take her up on that if I were you, especially if reaching your own extended family is out of the question. You could say Vicky's the grandmother to the whole of WP! Your own grandparents might have a lot of insights to give you about seeing eye-to-eye with your parents though. I know mine did.

Well, looks like I am fine now. It seems that as long as I have something to keep myself busy with, I am able to do just fine. But the moment I can't keep myself busy, or boredom strikes in, all of the depression stuff happens.
Also, seems like I am extremely unstable with my mood, one moment I'm depressed, next moment I'm euphoric.
But anyways, thanks everyone for helping me out and caring about me, it means a lot to me

You are more than welcome. Maybe doing something that you like to do very much could distract you, and then, not think so much about things that make you depressed.

What do you expect where Autistics ie unloveable disorder, my slimy NT cousins got all the love from my Grandparents did they think I was that stupid to not see it ? did I get anything in their will ,of cause not , the only will I will ever get will be from a non blood relative

It has nothing to do with the money , it's the thought that counts, seriously

^^^

Once you recover from your mental problems and age a little you wont care about these things , stuff em .

I agree i don't care about you

It really sucks to hear that you feel this way, but I do understand because I have felt the same many times. I can tell you that it is the toughest when you live at home and in your teen years. I highly suggest you find some type of group that has the same interests as you. I can ASSURE YOU that there, you will find MANY people who share many of your traits.

For example, my son is really into Comic Con kind of stuff. He is normally all alone, same issue…but by looking and looking we have found that when we go to these Comic Con events, the same group of people always go…after just 3 times going this year, they start recognizing each other. They ALL seem to have the same personality he does and heck, the same as mine.

I really get that whole family crap, my family is EXACTLY the same and always was, always will be. What helped me GREATLY was when I left my house and found a job. It was in my job that I began to excel and found MANY people just like me who truly cared and appreciated me. They are still my friends 20 years later and I trust MOST of them more than my crappy family. I live as far away from family as I can.

By the way, my brother is EXACTLY the same way as you…a tech guy…he did the same and has a very happy life with all his friends being tech guys. My parents have NEVER met any of his friends because my parents and sister are so pathetic…but he's very happy and his wife is just like him.

It WILL get better, you just need to find others who share your interest somehow…and I promise you, their stories will be VERY similar to yours and you will find great friends there.