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01 Apr 2014, 2:28 am

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I suppose if men arent allowed to share opinions or anything helpful for women then I suppose were not allowed then and rules need to be changed. Im no longer going to provide advice or post there ever again then. If a male bashing thread is made then I suppose im not allowed to stick up for myself and just let it fly.


once again, how exactly is my thread bashing men?

the same link, again
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postxf255438-0-15.html particularly the last few posts I guess men are stupid too eh? I dunno maybe I got the wrong idea Im just not in the right state of mind and am frustrated right now. I made a post earlier trying to be sympathetic then get attacked.


at what point did i call you stupid and attack you?

i reread the post in which i asked you not to post "humorous" youtube videos in my thread, and i think i was pretty civil. i certainly didn't insult you in any way, i just told you that wasn't what i was looking for and it was probably better posted in the love and dating forum.



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01 Apr 2014, 2:30 am

starvingartist wrote:
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starvingartist wrote:
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I suppose if men arent allowed to share opinions or anything helpful for women then I suppose were not allowed then and rules need to be changed. Im no longer going to provide advice or post there ever again then. If a male bashing thread is made then I suppose im not allowed to stick up for myself and just let it fly.


once again, how exactly is my thread bashing men?

the same link, again
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postxf255438-0-15.html particularly the last few posts I guess men are stupid too eh? I dunno maybe I got the wrong idea Im just not in the right state of mind and am frustrated right now. I made a post earlier trying to be sympathetic then get attacked.


at what point did i call you stupid and attack you?

i reread the post in which i asked you not to post "humorous" youtube videos in my thread, and i think i was pretty civil. i certainly didn't insult you in any way, i just told you that wasn't what i was looking for and it was probably better posted in the love and dating forum.
was prior to that was another person who pretty much told me to f*ck off when I didnt say anything wrong!


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01 Apr 2014, 2:31 am

AspieOtaku wrote:
starvingartist wrote:
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I suppose if men arent allowed to share opinions or anything helpful for women then I suppose were not allowed then and rules need to be changed. Im no longer going to provide advice or post there ever again then. If a male bashing thread is made then I suppose im not allowed to stick up for myself and just let it fly.


once again, how exactly is my thread bashing men?

the same link, again
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postxf255438-0-15.html particularly the last few posts I guess men are stupid too eh? I dunno maybe I got the wrong idea Im just not in the right state of mind and am frustrated right now. I made a post earlier trying to be sympathetic then get attacked.


at what point did i call you stupid and attack you?

i reread the post in which i asked you not to post "humorous" youtube videos in my thread, and i think i was pretty civil. i certainly didn't insult you in any way, i just told you that wasn't what i was looking for and it was probably better posted in the love and dating forum.
was prior to that was another person who pretty much told me to f*ck off when I didnt say anything wrong!


then why are you directing all this emotional hyperbole at me?



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01 Apr 2014, 2:39 am

starvingartist wrote:
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starvingartist wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
starvingartist wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
I suppose if men arent allowed to share opinions or anything helpful for women then I suppose were not allowed then and rules need to be changed. Im no longer going to provide advice or post there ever again then. If a male bashing thread is made then I suppose im not allowed to stick up for myself and just let it fly.


once again, how exactly is my thread bashing men?

the same link, again
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postxf255438-0-15.html particularly the last few posts I guess men are stupid too eh? I dunno maybe I got the wrong idea Im just not in the right state of mind and am frustrated right now. I made a post earlier trying to be sympathetic then get attacked.


at what point did i call you stupid and attack you?

i reread the post in which i asked you not to post "humorous" youtube videos in my thread, and i think i was pretty civil. i certainly didn't insult you in any way, i just told you that wasn't what i was looking for and it was probably better posted in the love and dating forum.
was prior to that was another person who pretty much told me to f*ck off when I didnt say anything wrong!


then why are you directing all this emotional hyperbole at me?
Im not its just Im frustrated and venting at the moment sorry! I got the wrong idea and took it the wrong way and sometimes I go apeshit when I melt down. Its not your fault i was out of line and been taking it the wrong way. I just need to take a beather, when I get the message of not allowed to post when there isnt a rule against posting on the clarification secion I get the vibe of I am not welcome.


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01 Apr 2014, 3:23 am

Sometimes I get curious and since there are no official rules forbidding men from posting some opinions like it says in the clarification we get attacked and are told were not allowed to and our opinions aren't needed that is kind of part of the problem that sort of triggered my meltdown. If Hypothetically there was really a male bashing thread to be made and I decided to stick up for myself on that regard you bet I would be offended do I not have a right to be offended and comment about something like that? Apparently not! It is a bse to safely create male bashing threads with no consequences or recourse. This would be hypothetically speaking of course.


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01 Apr 2014, 4:01 am

AspieOtaku wrote:
Sometimes I get curious and since there are no official rules forbidding men from posting some opinions like it says in the clarification we get attacked and are told were not allowed to and our opinions aren't needed that is kind of part of the problem that sort of triggered my meltdown. If Hypothetically there was really a male bashing thread to be made and I decided to stick up for myself on that regard you bet I would be offended do I not have a right to be offended and comment about something like that? Apparently not! It is a bse to safely create male bashing threads with no consequences or recourse. This would be hypothetically speaking of course.


read this thread (it's short, only a single page): men only discussion forum

it explains clearly why there is a women's forum but not one for men (anymore).

the women's discussion forum is not now nor has it ever been a forum for male-bashing. if it were, it would be taken down. but it hasn't, and for good reason.



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01 Apr 2014, 6:47 am

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that is kind of part of the problem that sort of triggered my meltdown.

But the people who will give during a meltdown, they do so straightaway. When that doesn't happen, you're stronger if you let it go then wasting effort trying to persuade anyone of anything during a meltdown. Much stronger if you can walk away from a disagreement you won't win.



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01 Apr 2014, 10:30 am

AspieOtaku, it upset a couple of people because what you posted derailed the thread, and was irrelevant to the discussion. Not because you were a male.


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01 Apr 2014, 12:27 pm

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AspieOtaku, it upset a couple of people because what you posted derailed the thread, and was irrelevant to the discussion. Not because you were a male.
The thread was dying on the early post she seemed bored so I posted then I instantly got attacked then told to GTFO of the thread! It sure felt that way then instantly after there was a thread title to all the males posting in women's discussion! I just don't get it there were males in the past making threads in women's discussion and they didn't catch any flack hell I did a couple times but not until recently.


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01 Apr 2014, 12:54 pm

Now that I am abit more calm I will explain why I got upset and offended. The thread that mansplaining seemed to be a thread about men and why men act the way they do, i looked in and there was no activity and it seemed boring so i put in my imput then instantly I was told to GTFO I was confused and didnt get it then another male posted with a silly post to try and lighten it up so I kinda shrugged it off and made a humorous post then I was told to leave again and I got it this time and it made me feel welcome. It hurt my feelings I was hurt once I left shortly after I saw an angry thread about male posters posting on womens and I read it and thats when I started getting a meltdown thats what happened!


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01 Apr 2014, 4:17 pm

Anywho im feeling better and calm now Im staying clear from womens discussion from now on and I guess other males should stay away from there this is usually the reaction when a guy says something or is seen there anyway as described in the GiF! Image


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01 Apr 2014, 4:38 pm

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Anywho im feeling better and calm now Im staying clear from womens discussion from now on and I guess other males should stay away from there this is usually the reaction when a guy says something or is seen there anyway as described in the GiF! Image


erm...did you manage to read the caption?



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01 Apr 2014, 4:43 pm

tarantella64 wrote:
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Anywho im feeling better and calm now Im staying clear from womens discussion from now on and I guess other males should stay away from there this is usually the reaction when a guy says something or is seen there anyway as described in the GiF! Image


erm...did you manage to read the caption?
Not till you mentioned it! :lol:


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01 Apr 2014, 5:06 pm

Dude chill, let the ladies have their alone time. Butt out when they tell you too. They are ladies, please realize how much they let men be manly idiots. They need to relax after putting up with us knuckleheads. I'm sure you didn't mean anything. consider the women's disscusion thread as men's sign of respect towards the ladies. Life is good!


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01 Apr 2014, 9:06 pm

Its best I quit apparently im one of the few men women are trying to get away from according to GGP Viper. I am garbage a creep and the cancer of WP I am unwelcome unwanted and trash. I banned myself already from wd but thats not enough. Im out of here I wont be missed I am unwelcome and unwanted goodbye everyone.


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01 Apr 2014, 10:50 pm

I'm gonna miss your posts. D: