Are you ever mistaken for being stupid and/or crazy?

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Esperanza
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15 May 2007, 3:49 pm

She's absolutely right. People think I'm stupid and/or crazy a lot. I have only just recently begun to understand just how much this is true. It's upsetting, but I don't think there's anything I can do about it.



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15 May 2007, 4:56 pm

All the time.

But I wonder why people constantly do stupid, crazy things themselves yet call me stupid. Is their stupidity more legitimate than mine? :roll:


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15 May 2007, 5:04 pm

sounded wrote:
Mistaken?

Never.


pretty much what I was going to say.
I AM crazy. I have come off as stupider
than I usually am though. But, this happens
less within academic circles.



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15 May 2007, 5:47 pm

Kinda like what calandale said.

I am crazy. I'm aware of this. (Brings to mind that one thing about an insane person not being able to know that they're insane, I think that's rubbish.) As for stupid? Well, I can definitely act stupid at times. It irritates me more when people tell me I'm smart, or smarter than them. I hate that s**t. I'd almost prefer people thinking I'm stupid, either because it was right or because they were mistaken, either way I think it would be better.



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17 May 2007, 7:05 pm

Emphatically yes to both. Typically, the assessment is made by someone more fitting of either description, but they're running the place, so I guess that's that.



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17 May 2007, 8:49 pm

I've been mistaken as being "stupid" many times..."crazy" is a bit of a gray area with me also.


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17 May 2007, 9:44 pm

There's this girl in one of my classes which she always gives me this stare like she thinks I'm retarted or something along the lines of that.


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17 May 2007, 10:18 pm

shadexiii wrote:
I'd almost prefer people thinking I'm stupid, either because it was right or because they were mistaken, either way I think it would be better.


Easier to surprise them with a quick strike?

On the other hand, being misjudged the other
way is useful as well. They might be less willing
to attack.



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17 May 2007, 10:21 pm

I honestly think I'm crazy, so I don't mind when people call me it. But I don't like being called stupid. But it doesn't really bother me because I know I'm very intelligent.



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17 May 2007, 10:34 pm

While I was at school, EVERYONE thought I was stupid, even one time when I refused to fall for some stupid prank I was STILL called dumb!
Everyone thought I was crazy too, but they were to f*****g stupid to realize that I "went crazy" because they were picking on me so much, and my very few "friends" thought they would make everything better by ignoring me and then picking on me with everyone else!


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18 May 2007, 2:02 am

alll during school I hardly spoke so people thought I was stupid...not because I didnt speak but when I did speak it was always stupid and not thought out right. Now adays I let people think I'm stupid and I like to prove them wrong :) Then they eventually learn I'm just wierd and not stupid, and I'm happy with that.



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18 May 2007, 4:16 am

people think i'm crazy because i'm a conspiracy theorist.

And people think i'm stupid too because of my social skills.



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18 May 2007, 7:35 am

Someone put a Dunce's hat on me once in school. w*kers.



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18 May 2007, 9:20 am

I don't think anyone has ever thought that I am stupid.

Many a time people have thought I was crazy. One of my teachers actually said that he thought I might go on a killing spree in the town centre. I had no idea why he thought that, and I still don't, but I have accepted that as I can sometime appear quite moody and brooding and as I am quite weird and a loner, people automatically think of you as differentin a negative way - and sometimes are fearful of it. I also think that my being quite aggressive in my opinions at times sometimes intimidates people.



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18 May 2007, 12:51 pm

mike7699 wrote:
people think i'm crazy because i'm a conspiracy theorist.

And people think i'm stupid too because of my social skills.
I like to use the phrase conspiracy realist, Instead of conspiracy theorist that’s just me though. :wink:



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18 May 2007, 4:55 pm

I feel that I'm thought of as dumb and awkward in alot of areas in life, mostly those with alot of socialization involved but there are some things I feel I can do well in my own way and sometimes I think I'm not taken seriously enough when I'm doing those few things I CAN do because of my weaknesses elsewhere.

If that makes any sense, I'll be happy lol