She's absolutely right. People think I'm stupid and/or crazy a lot. I have only just recently begun to understand just how much this is true. It's upsetting, but I don't think there's anything I can do about it.
Joined: 15 Dec 2006 Age: 40 Gender: Male Posts: 3,545
15 May 2007, 5:47 pm
Kinda like what calandale said.
I am crazy. I'm aware of this. (Brings to mind that one thing about an insane person not being able to know that they're insane, I think that's rubbish.) As for stupid? Well, I can definitely act stupid at times. It irritates me more when people tell me I'm smart, or smarter than them. I hate that s**t. I'd almost prefer people thinking I'm stupid, either because it was right or because they were mistaken, either way I think it would be better.
Joined: 11 Nov 2006 Age: 43 Gender: Male Posts: 15 Location: Portland, OR
17 May 2007, 7:05 pm
Emphatically yes to both. Typically, the assessment is made by someone more fitting of either description, but they're running the place, so I guess that's that.
I honestly think I'm crazy, so I don't mind when people call me it. But I don't like being called stupid. But it doesn't really bother me because I know I'm very intelligent.
While I was at school, EVERYONE thought I was stupid, even one time when I refused to fall for some stupid prank I was STILL called dumb!
Everyone thought I was crazy too, but they were to f*****g stupid to realize that I "went crazy" because they were picking on me so much, and my very few "friends" thought they would make everything better by ignoring me and then picking on me with everyone else!
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Joined: 13 May 2007 Age: 41 Gender: Male Posts: 116 Location: Perth, Australia
18 May 2007, 2:02 am
alll during school I hardly spoke so people thought I was stupid...not because I didnt speak but when I did speak it was always stupid and not thought out right. Now adays I let people think I'm stupid and I like to prove them wrong Then they eventually learn I'm just wierd and not stupid, and I'm happy with that.
I don't think anyone has ever thought that I am stupid.
Many a time people have thought I was crazy. One of my teachers actually said that he thought I might go on a killing spree in the town centre. I had no idea why he thought that, and I still don't, but I have accepted that as I can sometime appear quite moody and brooding and as I am quite weird and a loner, people automatically think of you as differentin a negative way - and sometimes are fearful of it. I also think that my being quite aggressive in my opinions at times sometimes intimidates people.
Joined: 5 Oct 2005 Gender: Male Posts: 49 Location: Sheffield, UK
18 May 2007, 4:55 pm
I feel that I'm thought of as dumb and awkward in alot of areas in life, mostly those with alot of socialization involved but there are some things I feel I can do well in my own way and sometimes I think I'm not taken seriously enough when I'm doing those few things I CAN do because of my weaknesses elsewhere.