Hey, Agnix, I think it's great that you got away from your uncle! You did the right thing, it was not a situation that would improve. Who knows what would have happened if you stayed.
Is there anyone in your life that will help you call all these companies and close accounts with them? Maybe you could ask the relatives you are staying with? The sooner you get this done, the sooner you will have money and be able to get your own place? Can you and your husband make a comprehensive list?
Best wishes!
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