Just want to hear from some people again

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I actually have done the latter. They've responded to my general posts but either don't respond anymore such as XFilesGeek or never have at all to PMs such as Sweetleaf. Alliekit is partly why I have a hard time truly leaving this place. I want to hear from her again but she stopped posting regularly and has never stated why.

Some people may have set up a PM rule to block your messages; others may simply be ignoring your messages. As for Alliekit, maybe give her until the end of the month before giving up on her. People often drop out for no particular reason.

She hasn't posted regularly since last year. I've waited long past a single month.

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Alliekit is really a nice person. And very smart, too.

She is a research scientist. I wish she would come back myself.

In general, I'm happy for someone who stops coming to the forum because I assume (although this is not always true) that they are busy with their lives and no longer "need" this place.

That does not include the people who post a negative reason why they are leaving, but I hope for the best for those people too.

I don't "need" WP, per se. I just have fun here.

Then it is safe for me to say that she is not coming back.

Marknis, these guys have a point that you shouldn't PM people abusively. You did that once to me, too, before you realized I was actually on your side. I wonder where you get this behavior? I am betting you have seen people in your household, perhaps your mother and father or stepfather, saying atrocious things to each other or belittling each other, and it seems like a fair way to fight. It isn't.

We would love to have you back participating actively in the forum. But you have to do so respectfully, the way you yourself would want to be treated. We also would love to see you moving forward in reclaiming your own life, not just complaining about your mother without making any changes.

There are quite a few people in the past couple days who expressed support for you. Please concentrate on those who generate positive regard for you, and ignore (or report) those who don't. I bet you can do this!

So then don’t send me pm’s ranting and raving that my active gay sex life thousands of miles away in another country ruins your non sex life where you live.

And don’t send pm’s making up a bunch of crazy s**t I never said tempting me to waste my time refuting your distorted nonsense.

Then I won’t reply to that crap ever.

You were the one pushing how I should focus on getting a sex life onto me while I was talking about how I wish I had a romantic life. Funny how you accuse me of lying when you just now told a lie.

Stay out of my threads and I won't "abuse" you. Ever thought about that?

Except I never said that, so there’s that. The post you quoted of mine in your pm does not say that. Go read it again. Oh, and stop lying, Marknis.

This is a public forum. I’ll post in any thread I choose to. Me making a post in a thread you start is not justification for you pm’ing a bunch of rambling abuse to me, or anyone for that matter. Grow up, Marknis.

^This tête-à-tête is why I don't like PM's. I'd rather have a discussion out in the open so if there's an issue people can sort out who's the good guy and who's the bad.

And now, back to our regularly scheduled program.

BS. It indeed said that. You told me to go for that instead of a relationship. Quit projecting the fact you yourself are a liar onto me.

Grow up yourself, emo kid. You throw a piss fit whenever anyone stands up to you. Stop also claiming you want to see me succeed. Besides the girlfriend issue, I highly doubt you would support my other dreams that my family and the culture I live in perpetually sabotage.

Here’s the post you quoted:



I never said what you said I said. Reading comprehension > you.

Emo kid? I’m Canadian, if you hurt my feelings I can go to the hospital and get them checked for free. But you haven’t and I’m not throwing a “piss fit.” (Whatever that is sounds like a Trump tape thing to me..)

Why would I not want you to succeed, Marknis? Have I EVER said that? No.

I support all goals & dreams, whoever’s they are & whatever they are.

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I have seen and heard abusive talk at home for all my 30 years. The Bible Belt is also the kingdom of busy bodies and I suppose it's unconsciously rubbed off on me in that way. I regret what I did to you but I can't do the same for goldfish.

Emo kid, genius. Who's lacking in reading comprehension now? You still said sex life in that quote and were pushing for it over a relationship. Get that through your thick skull already.

You throw a piss fit because you talk a big game to me but when I tell you to f**k off, you get butthurt.

BS. I wish I could draw a manga influenced comic and you would accuse me of "stealing" Japanese culture.