Where to live....

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Before I scrolled down so I could see the last word, I thought it was going to be doom.

Then my uncle comes here saying stop looking for a new place, what my aunt said wasn't true... But she's the boss, if she don't want us living here we gotta go.

Simple, if she's the boss then talk to her, she'll respect that. Go right up to aunty and ask what the score is.
"What's going on with the trailer, are we good to stay here or what?"

It's OK to do that, you're just making your position clear and finding out where she stands.

If you can just be upfront and direct I wouldn't be surprised if she said you can stay on.

Be brave.

If you're dodging your aunt and she's the boss she's probably engineered this whole thing.

I told her and she accused me and my husband to be liars! Either my uncle is telling my aunt (as she claims) that we have to leave but he is telling us the exact opposite, or she wants us to leave and she's lying to me and lying and trying to say it's her brother who wants us out. I haven't figured out which it is but it involves somebody lying but it isn't us! We're the ones being jerked around by this!

Get your own place....so you won't be jerked around like this!

My uncle is now accusing me of starting the drama because we just asked my aunt what was going on. Now he's saying get our own place. My husband wants to stay with my other relatives until we do. And anyone saying I need to ditch husband, he's a good man, he's just a frustrated as I.

What a giant dick around.

Maybe this little drama will abate once everyone has vented.

Stay strong.

And hence you both are the ones who need to get the f**k outta there and not go back to anywhere involving relatives. And if your husband won’t coöperate, you, in the singular, need to scram on your own and let him make up his mind with your uncle and aunt’s kind help. But you’ve already been told this.

My husband thought my other relatives just wanted us to come over to visit! They want us to stay. My husband wants to actually stay here until we get a new place and actually my aunt/uncle said that was okay. We can't just suddenly leave, it would be unwise. Also the local job, they told me this morning that their hiring would be delayed a couple weeks. If I get it I would have to find a nearby place and my other relatives are not.

Why do I tell WP all this drama? I just need to vent that's why!

I really, really feel that you should commit yourself to getting your own place.

Otherwise, you're at the beck and call of your uncle, aunt, other members of that family.

I feel this pretty strongly.

Yes, were finding a new place for sure.

Just as a job opening, no matter how suited to you, might never turn into a job, you have to recognize that apartment openings, wherever located, and allowing dogs or not, may not actually accept you in a time frame of your desiring. So, just as you apply for multiple jobs at once, I encourage you to apply for, or get on a waiting list for, more than one apartment, in hopes that at least one of them will materialize.

So are things a little calmer now?