Kink talk
goldfish21 wrote:
Options:
Could find a woman your age who's kink is being with a virgin.
Could make being an old weirdo pervert your own kink and find a young woman into that.
Also, this thread reminds me why some people on here seriously discuss hiring a pro to gain experience, teach/show them. It is an option if it gets you passed your mental hurdles and makes you feel more confident talking to women in general. You could seek a pro and specify that you're looking for someone patient to teach/show you things, to bring you up to speed on that side of life. Exchange emails, find one you click with, make arrangements to meet. It is an actual option and many choose to exercise it. You could always start another thread and ask specifically about others' experiences with that and see what advice they have.
Could find a woman your age who's kink is being with a virgin.
Could make being an old weirdo pervert your own kink and find a young woman into that.
Also, this thread reminds me why some people on here seriously discuss hiring a pro to gain experience, teach/show them. It is an option if it gets you passed your mental hurdles and makes you feel more confident talking to women in general. You could seek a pro and specify that you're looking for someone patient to teach/show you things, to bring you up to speed on that side of life. Exchange emails, find one you click with, make arrangements to meet. It is an actual option and many choose to exercise it. You could always start another thread and ask specifically about others' experiences with that and see what advice they have.
It's an idea. But it is both illegal and can get me in jail and ruin my career. The only option would be Vegas, but that's prohibitively expensive. Besides, I don't want just sex with a random hot girl; I want to feel intimacy emotionally as well as physically.