How can I not let this bring me down

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It is perfectly normal for many people to lose interest romantically in another person, very quickly. It can happen within minutes if something puts someone off someone else, or it can happen gradually.

The girl may have been briefly interested in you romantically and then has become disinterested. Again, that would be a reasonable response in any situation or with any individual, for the girl.

I wouldn't get caught up about someone who probably doesn't think about you even a little, if at all.

So did that girl in the bar that night in 1982----but she sobered up, and lost interest.

That's life.

If you liked her you should have kept in contact.

Well, then it seems you can’t complain if you don’t meet a girlfriend.

I’m sorry to say but you need to step up.

I met a man on Monday and he’s already asked me out twice.

The truth is if you like someone you need to let them know.

So do I, but that hasn’t stopped people from asking.

I haven’t even mentioned my bf to this man because it’s my decision either way. Also my personal life is none of his business, even though he seems like a nice chap.

If a woman had a long-term boyfriend, I probably wouldn't have pursued her when I was single.

True. If she tells you that, it’s good to back off.

In my case I don’t say it because I can make up my own mind, whether I have a bf or not. I don’t want to sound like “Oh, the reason I won’t date you is that some other man owns me”. That implies I’m chattel. In reality it’s more like “I won’t date you because I don’t want to.”

He’s a nice person and I wouldn’t mind being friends but men hate being friend-zoned so I’m not going to bother.

To me, it would be better if a woman liked me as a friend than if she doesn't like me at all.