Stupid ass little sisters who never give you a chance!

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21 Feb 2008, 10:59 am

Yes, child abuse can mess up a child as an adult (and I know that first hand). However, going by her other posts, there is no way she can not know that abuse is wrong and that she does not have the right to hurt her sister in any way , as she even says how its wrong of her mom to treat her like that. If she knows that it is wrong for her mother to treat her like that, then there is no excuse in her past for her behavior of treating her sister the way her mom treats her.;her post here also shows that the abuse toward her sister is premeditated, which means she is fully capable of stopping it. Its one thing to be so angry you just throw out a punch without realizing it, as many past abuse victims do. its another to not only not be sorry you hit, burned, cut your sister, but to say you have a right to do it, and will do it in the future.

Also, jail time for child abuse does typically include counseling/therapy, and a certain level must be met before the abuser can have any contact with the person they are harming

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21 Feb 2008, 8:30 pm

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When I complain my little sister never listens to me. When I express a concern the hussy little always wants to tell me to shut up. my thing is, i am her older sister and I reverve the right to cut her, burn her, and throw her into the fire place when she is disrespectful to me, the b***h is sneaky, she calls me a ret*d and crazy. She's a trifling heffer. I am 18 years old I will kick her ass and neglecte her as I f***ing please. The point is that I am her older sister, when she gets mad at me, then she is to respect me, I am now a grown woman b***h! If she f***ing smart with me, than I will hurt her. I deserve the respect that she owes me. I can repeat myself and talk anyway I want to around her. She deliberately disrespects me, I will get back at her and make her life miserable.

She has your mom AND you abusing her? You can't blame her for being mean...but you can control your actions. You need counselling extremely badly, as normally people don't burn their sisters.

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22 Feb 2008, 2:32 am

I like taking my little brother and sister to the movies or out shopping.

We beat each other up sometimes, but it's always just playing around.

I <3 my siblings.

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22 Feb 2008, 11:09 pm

Kezzstar wrote:

I like taking my little brother and sister to the movies or out shopping.

We beat each other up sometimes, but it's always just playing around.

I <3 my siblings.

I used to wrestle with my sister, but it was for fun (She's 9 year older then me and she let me win

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Please get some help, I've gone through child abuse as well, and I've gotten a lot better through counsellor (though it's hard to see that sometimes)

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23 Feb 2008, 12:01 am

ebec11 wrote:

Kezzstar wrote:

I like taking my little brother and sister to the movies or out shopping.

We beat each other up sometimes, but it's always just playing around.

I <3 my siblings.

I used to wrestle with my sister, but it was for fun (She's 9 year older then me and she let me win

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Please get some help, I've gone through child abuse as well, and I've gotten a lot better through counsellor (though it's hard to see that sometimes)

LOL, siblings can be annoying and fun sometimes.

It's when they don't shut up that I get narky.........

But meh, I missed them when I moved out. Now I've moved back in I loathe them again (jk)

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11 Apr 2008, 3:43 am

So fabshelly and Tri were not lying after all.

princess,do you know the golden rule?
"treat others as you would like to be treated" keep it well in mind. if you mom is violating this rule that doesn't mean you have the right to violate it with your sister.

You like to be treated with respect ,no?

If things continue to be so bad between you and your family then I think you should start to find a job and to move to your own apartment but keep the Golden rule in your mind because you won't be able to maintain a job with such attitude.

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11 Apr 2008, 4:18 am

She said all this before she said she doesn't abuse her sister.

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11 Apr 2008, 8:47 pm

ebec11 wrote:

princess_1989 wrote:

She has your mom AND you abusing her? You can't blame her for being mean...but you can control your actions. You need counselling extremely badly, as normally people don't burn their sisters.

i used to fight with my sister and brother alot. all that passed and we are close now. it sounds like your sister is looking for attention like my sister did. i stopped giving her the negative attention that she was tring to get, and started giving her positive attention. it wasnt easy to ignore the emotional abuse she was giving me but it worked. hope this helps.

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11 Apr 2008, 11:55 pm

The opening post to go along with my reply at http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp1341531.html#1341531

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When I complain my little sister never listens to me. When I express a concern the hussy little always wants to tell me to shut up. my thing is, i am her older sister and I reverve the right to cut her, burn her, and throw her into the fire place when she is disrespectful to me, the b***h is sneaky, she calls me a ret*d and crazy. She's a trifling heffer. I am 18 years old I will kick her ass and neglecte her as I f***ing please. The point is that I am her older sister, when she gets mad at me, then she is to respect me, I am now a grown woman b***h! If she f***ing smart with me, than I will hurt her. I deserve the respect that she owes me. I can repeat myself and talk anyway I want to around her. She deliberately disrespects me, I will get back at her and make her life miserable

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