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sodarktheshadows
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01 Apr 2008, 9:40 pm

benjimanbreeg wrote:
sodarktheshadows wrote:
benjimanbreeg wrote:
sodarktheshadows wrote:
anxiety sucks...that's for sure.
but i know you can get past it...and i know it will be hard. but you can.
you will be fine for your competition next week...we'll make sure of that. :wink:
meds may or may not be the answer...i don't know.
but you need to start to understand that you can't always have everything perfect...there will be times when things don't go exactly as you want them. if it means that you won't play the perfect game, then don't...just play the best game you can at the moment. it doesn't always have to be perfect!
play because you love to play, not because you have to.


Thanks, oh yeah In know we can't always play perfect, but my results are not as good as they should be, because of my problem! :(

then don't play for the results. play for the love of the game. the rest will fall in line naturally once you can learn to do that. it's just like i said it is with my art.


I've tried, I get too intense sometimes I can't see through the smoke, I just realised at tennis today, I may never change, all that self talk goes out the window, its too deep for me to be helped, its part of me and my personality, i'm doomed :evil:

no, you're not. you are not doomed. don't be like that! we'll talk tomorrow. usual time.


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