I am considering permanently leaving WP

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Yes!! !

In my country, christians don't/can't watch shows like south park

I just want to end it all.

Tim why don't you e-mail her now and then and try to get on with your life and see what happens she could shange her mind you could find some one else.
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I sent her an e-mail last night, but she hasn't replied to it. She's busy with her studies, so it might take a few days for her to get back to me.

You seem like a great guy Tim. Sorry if this sounds patronizing, it ain't meant to be but - would you like another friend man? I'd like to make friends with others on WP.

I sent her an e-mail last night, but she hasn't replied to it. She's busy with her studies, so it might take a few days for her to get back to me.[/quote]


That’s all you can do, Tim, some times there a fine line between neglect and suffocation!

But why did she wait 2 months to tell me that she couldn't do anything long-distance? When we first met, she knew I was going to a college 300 miles away from her.

Who knows Tim may be she just doesn’t want a relationship with you, may be she has some one else, and may-be in time she'll change her mind. You never know.
I push some one away one time ,thought that it was for the best and there's not a day goes by that I don't think about him and miss him and its been 15 years. I think that is was the worse miss take of my life but probably he best for him. All I’m saying is you ever know she might change her mind and start thinking that she let a great guy go by.

As far as I know, she hasn't found anyone else. If she never intended to have a relationship with me, why couldn't she just tell me that.

she probabley didn't want to hurt your feeling, and may she just desided that after awhile that you weren't mr right, just a thought. it seems to me that there are alot of people in there 20's on hear and new one joining every day your day will come. do you go to church some place ?because that a place some people like to meet at.

But she could have told me from the beginning, rather than wait two months, after I got all my hopes up.

She could of but she didn't. and you seem to be alittle obsessed which happen to us aspies you need to find some thing else to obsess a bout or you'll go crazy!

Tim,

It's obvious that she's only using that as an excuse. She went out with you for a little while but then was too "chicken" to tell you that she decided not to go out with you.

You won't win her back by chasing her - some things just aren't meant to be. Also, I don't really think that it would be good for either of you to get back together.

You need to move on and you need to leave her alone.

Sure, she's at WP, though I haven't seen her contributing to these discussions - hence, a general lack of interest in getting her story straight. She doesn't care about the relationship.

There's no reason to leave WP unless she's communicating with you all the time here. You have lots of friends here and this is the time you need them.

Definitely, you need to be looking for a girl who is the exact opposite of the one you're talking about here. One who won't remind you of her.

Try looking for an NT who likes South Park... Visit a SP forum or something, find out if there are any fan groups, anime groups etc in your area. For a little while, try to ignore your inner aspie. I'm married to an NT and it's not such a bad position to be in. Not bad at all actually.

Finally, while it's normal to be depressed about a relationship breaking up, you have to be careful not to hurt yourself. Actually, self-harm doesn't hurt as much as doing something "new". If you really want to punish yourself then, instead of cutting etc... force yourself to go to a bar and talk to some NT "chicks". That's real agony for an aspie.

Why would it not be a good idea for me and her to be together?

I didn't even know about the whole personality concept until she mentioned it to me. And I thought she was going to be flexible about the distance issue, until she told me otherwise.

Sure.