To whomever is listening,
I don't know about you, but I fall in love with a person's personality, not with superficial trappings such as whether they have a job, a house of their own, or whatever things "real adults" are meant to go for.
For a start: I still live with my parents, and I readily admit that I'm emotionally 6 years old, so complaining about said things even if they DID bother me would be hypocritical.
More importantly, though: it's a person's personality that determines how they treat you. Lots of people get into bad relationships because they are impressed by the superficial trappings of a person, and they forget to check whether or not their partner is a decent person who'll treat them well- in fact, this seems to be the norm in the mature world of real adults.
If that's maturity and making good choices, I think I'll stick with childishness and bad choices.
Apart from disappearing with no warning except from a nasty letter from someone else, he always treated me well, he always respected me, he always treated me like a valuable person. This is more than I can say for most of the real, mature adults I've known.
Finally: my teenage lovesick urges, like most people's, were based on superficial types of things, NOT on personality. This was completely different.
- Me
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Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
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