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17 Nov 2019, 2:25 pm

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17 Nov 2019, 2:42 pm

8 Made it safely to my secret location(there's a castle and a beach outside my window :heart: ).



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17 Nov 2019, 3:15 pm

we all could use such a secret location :star:



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17 Nov 2019, 3:20 pm

Magically teleports AB here :lol: ...



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17 Nov 2019, 3:22 pm

Juliette wrote:
Magically teleports AB here :lol: ...

i can feel the stiff cold breeze in my hair and face, and smell the salt sea spray, and see the cloudy skies above :star:



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17 Nov 2019, 3:27 pm

+5

Finished a long church service; now waiting for Sunday School to finish so I can have lunch.



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17 Nov 2019, 3:31 pm

Fnord wrote:
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Finished a long church service; now waiting for Sunday School to finish so I can have lunch.


I am glad I don’t waste my existence on church.



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17 Nov 2019, 3:56 pm

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There's nothing to say. There's no point to anything. I'll never find my place in the world.



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17 Nov 2019, 5:40 pm

auntblabby wrote:
we all could use such a secret location :star:

Agrees very strongly.


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17 Nov 2019, 5:42 pm

Just dont now how much longer can do this :(


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17 Nov 2019, 5:50 pm

^^^Jakki, a useful quote that has leavened me in trying times, is "life is like a b-grade movie, in that while i wouldn't leave it before the ending, neither again would i wish to see it again."



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17 Nov 2019, 6:39 pm

^ What about when you want to leave the movie early because the whole thing is disturbing, alienating, and pointless?



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17 Nov 2019, 6:41 pm

I've definitely left movies before they ended, I think I know what this says about me too.


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17 Nov 2019, 6:50 pm

la_fenkis wrote:
^ What about when you want to leave the movie early because the whole thing is disturbing, alienating, and pointless?

what if there were a payoff at the closing, that required one to tough it out 'til then? would one want to risk losing out on all that work beforehand?



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17 Nov 2019, 7:32 pm

Jakki wrote:
Just dont now how much longer can do this :(


{{{{{{Jakki}}}}}} Wish I could teleport you here too. What would help your situation? Is the winter making things that much more difficult? Anything I can do from afar?x



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17 Nov 2019, 7:43 pm

la_fenkis wrote:
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There's nothing to say. There's no point to anything. I'll never find my place in the world.


It may not seem like it now, but I have a feeling I know where you're coming from. I've known the losses you have spoken of, and I remember basically shutting myself down over it(went into something of a coma for 3 months), just couldn't deal with life or living for a time, but you WILL get through this dark tunnel. Hang in there. Hopefully, one day, before you know it, there will be a flicker of light, a moment, where gradually, bit by bit, your life starts to have purpose once again. The people that you loved, and lost are with you, a part of you, willing you to go on, get through this horrible chapter, and come out the other side, and make something of your life. There is always hope, and always a future waiting. Time helps .... allow yourself time to feel all that you need to feel ... the hurt, the anger, ride the rollercoaster, but know that you will eventually smile again .... just takes a whole lot of emotion, and time ... Virtual hugs ...