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14 Jul 2009, 11:06 am

I think that self worth is a state of mind. It is all in the mind. If you respect yourself you will project that to others and they will respect you also.



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14 Jul 2009, 2:50 pm

anandamide wrote:
I think that self worth is a state of mind. It is all in the mind. If you respect yourself you will project that to others and they will respect you also.


Shame that I don't. :cry: But after all, I am born a loser. An Aspie in an NT's body.



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14 Jul 2009, 2:53 pm

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
An Aspie in an NT's body.


?! :roll:



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14 Jul 2009, 3:06 pm

bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
An Aspie in an NT's body.


?! :roll:


I LOOK NT, and seem like one, but when you get up close, that is not so. I have no good social skills, which are extremely crucial for my age. Did you know you are mocking me again? I'm not upset, I'm actually quite refreshed by it.



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14 Jul 2009, 4:08 pm

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
An Aspie in an NT's body.


?! :roll:


I LOOK NT, and seem like one, but when you get up close, that is not so. I have no good social skills, which are extremely crucial for my age. Did you know you are mocking me again? I'm not upset, I'm actually quite refreshed by it.


Mocking or not, i think i have met the anti-me :D



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14 Jul 2009, 10:11 pm

bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
An Aspie in an NT's body.


?! :roll:


I LOOK NT, and seem like one, but when you get up close, that is not so. I have no good social skills, which are extremely crucial for my age. Did you know you are mocking me again? I'm not upset, I'm actually quite refreshed by it.


Mocking or not, i think i have met the anti-me :D


What do you mean by "anti-me"?



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15 Jul 2009, 3:14 am

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
An Aspie in an NT's body.


?! :roll:


I LOOK NT, and seem like one, but when you get up close, that is not so. I have no good social skills, which are extremely crucial for my age. Did you know you are mocking me again? I'm not upset, I'm actually quite refreshed by it.


Mocking or not, i think i have met the anti-me :D


What do you mean by "anti-me"?


My anti-persona.



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15 Jul 2009, 7:58 am

bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
An Aspie in an NT's body.


?! :roll:


I LOOK NT, and seem like one, but when you get up close, that is not so. I have no good social skills, which are extremely crucial for my age. Did you know you are mocking me again? I'm not upset, I'm actually quite refreshed by it.


Mocking or not, i think i have met the anti-me :D


What do you mean by "anti-me"?


My anti-persona.


And what would that be, exactly?



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15 Jul 2009, 11:23 am

I'm not worthless and pretty sure of that.
Every day,i'm shining like a superstaR :)

I really love myself ...If I don't love myself, who else is going to?

And oh,it's my birthday tomorrow :lol:



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15 Jul 2009, 11:33 am

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
An Aspie in an NT's body.


?! :roll:


I LOOK NT, and seem like one, but when you get up close, that is not so. I have no good social skills, which are extremely crucial for my age. Did you know you are mocking me again? I'm not upset, I'm actually quite refreshed by it.


Mocking or not, i think i have met the anti-me :D


What do you mean by "anti-me"?


My anti-persona.


And what would that be, exactly?


It must be the union of NT and Aspie in one body 8)



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15 Jul 2009, 11:46 am

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It must be the union of NT and Aspie in one body 8)


Now that's what I would like to know :P



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16 Jul 2009, 7:12 am

bdhkhsfgk wrote:
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It must be the union of NT and Aspie in one body 8)


Now that's what I would like to know :P

Now I'm curious if the Aspie Quiz tells you that you have both Aspie and NT attributes.



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16 Jul 2009, 5:01 pm

Happy one, visno!!


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18 Jul 2009, 10:32 pm

Feelings of worth topic

Feelings about oneself change from moment to moment. So does the self esteem thing.

If you have had emotional/other trauma, things can seem very unpredictable; hence, feelings are switching back and forth so in one instance you feel great and in the next you feel worthless.

I experience this too. But oftentimes when you have something else to focus on things start to seem better. Focusing is usually seen as an aspie strength. If you think about your strengths more, you will feel and appear better. Nothing succeeds like success.

I wish I could have felt this good more than 40 years ago.

But better later than never!! ! :lol:


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