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would you?
friends 43%  43%  [ 16 ]
go out 5%  5%  [ 2 ]
no way 32%  32%  [ 12 ]
I wouldn't even want to be seen talking to you on a street 19%  19%  [ 7 ]
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29 Jun 2011, 5:38 pm

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My experience online tells me that someone whose nickname consists of a string of letters, followed by numbers, is likely to be a troll. Especially if they had something extraordinary in their OP. Please prove me wrong. Thank you.


I don't have to prove anything to anyone on this site. No one is forcing you to read or post in this thread.


Thanks, you already revealed it all.


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29 Jun 2011, 5:40 pm

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My experience online tells me that someone whose nickname consists of a string of letters, followed by numbers, is likely to be a troll. Especially if they had something extraordinary in their OP. Please prove me wrong. Thank you.


I don't have to prove anything to anyone on this site. No one is forcing you to read or post in this thread.


Thanks, you already revealed it all.


you're welcome I guess



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29 Jun 2011, 6:25 pm

OP:

You made a thread identical to this before. You won't make any effort (including showering) to try and get someone to like you, but you hope to get someone to just come your way someday. That's never going to work. If everything is all about what you want, then you don't have a chance.


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29 Jun 2011, 10:01 pm

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You made a thread identical to this before. You won't make any effort (including showering) to try and get someone to like you, but you hope to get someone to just come your way someday. That's never going to work. If everything is all about what you want, then you don't have a chance.


I never had a chance. :cry:

Like I said in other threads, I tried fitting in when I was in my teens. I tried buying all the latest fashions in clothes, I listened to most of the hardcore rap the people my age listened to, I even tried to hide my gaming addiction and tried to be more outgoing. It didn't work. When I started doing things that I liked I started to feel a lil better about myself because at least I wasn't trying to be someone else just to impress people or "fit in". Of course people still treated me the same, probably even worse.



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30 Jun 2011, 12:03 am

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the bathing should probably happen more often



I've been struggling with bathing my whole life. It's hard to get motivated to do it unless I'm going somewhere, especially in the winter because we have no hot water.


Well it is rather difficult for me as well......I have never been in a situation where there is no hot water or anywhere to shower/bathe but I have severe depression so it effects my motivation. I don't like how my hair feels when it gets too dirty though so that is usually what motivates me to take a quick shower to at least wash my hair or I will just wash my hair in the sink. I am sometimes to de-motivated to even find my deoderant to put it on.



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30 Jun 2011, 12:08 am

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You people are liars. There's no way any of you would want to be bothered with me. From my real life experience, it seems you people are blowing smoke up my ass.

I mean I haven't bathe in 3 months and I fungi growning on me! No one would hang out with me in public, I'm a bum and I would make them look bad in front of everyone.

It would be even worse with women. I'd get treated worse then how I was in my teens, where I was made fun of constantly by those whores because of how my face looked and how stupid I was. I've never kissed a girl and haven't so much as hugged a girl my age in like 8-9 years. Even if I wanted to date, what qualities do I have to attract women? I know most of them like to brag about who they're going out with. lol would who would brag about me?

Let's see:

They like strong-minded, mentally-tough men. I'm neither

They like for men to be charming and interesting. I can't hold a conversation if my life depended on it and I have the charisma of a tree.

They like men that are good looking and that practice basic hygiene. I'm hideously ugly and I haven't bathe in 3 months, nuff said.

They like men that are smart, educated, and have prospects for a good future. I'm stupid, I have nothing more than a 5th grade education, and I'm poor. Needless to say I have no future.

See? I have nothing to offer anyone. I'm a useless special ed bum who will spend the rest of his life alone. Why should I even be alive?


I have hung out with pleanty of bums.....yes homeless, smelly, unbathed bums. Why? because I do not care.......usually the bums downtown where i live are much more fun to talk to then the damn tourists and wealthy stuck up people that walk around there for some strange reason. So I wuld not assume everyone here is lying. some such as myself really do not judge people about things like that...the only judgement I would make about someone in that state of being would be that they are worse off then I currently am not that they are a horrid person I want nothing to do with.



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30 Jun 2011, 12:11 am

OddFinn wrote:
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OddFinn wrote:
My experience online tells me that someone whose nickname consists of a string of letters, followed by numbers, is likely to be a troll. Especially if they had something extraordinary in their OP. Please prove me wrong. Thank you.


I don't have to prove anything to anyone on this site. No one is forcing you to read or post in this thread.


Thanks, you already revealed it all.


I think it is more trollish to attempt to start a fight with someone in their thread......come on dude how is someone a troll just because they have a profile name of letters and numbers? and what is so extrodinary about what was said in the original post? but that is just me being opinionated.



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30 Jun 2011, 12:24 am

If you didn't smell bad then friends. I have extremley sensitive smell and can't be around people who make me feel ill unless forced to.



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30 Jun 2011, 4:54 am

Quite honestly, no I would not want to be around you and I'm not saying to to mean but you have to put some effort into it. I understand it being hard to motivate yourself to do certain things when you feel their pointless but a lack of basic hygiene is a complete lack of self-respect. Being poor, slow, liking video games and anime isn't the issue. There are a lot of things beyond our control in life but you have to make the best of what you can.



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30 Jun 2011, 5:24 am

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I think it is more trollish to attempt to start a fight with someone in their thread......come on dude how is someone a troll just because they have a profile name of letters and numbers? and what is so extrodinary about what was said in the original post? but that is just me being opinionated.


I read the OP again, and it still seems like they can't be serious. It calls those who find something negative about the described behavior idiots.

If the OP was serious, however, then I am wrong and sorry for my post. But still, I don't think calling people idiots helps in finding friends.


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30 Jun 2011, 10:11 am

OddFinn wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
I think it is more trollish to attempt to start a fight with someone in their thread......come on dude how is someone a troll just because they have a profile name of letters and numbers? and what is so extrodinary about what was said in the original post? but that is just me being opinionated.


I read the OP again, and it still seems like they can't be serious. It calls those who find something negative about the described behavior idiots.

If the OP was serious, however, then I am wrong and sorry for my post. But still, I don't think calling people idiots helps in finding friends.


You mean people that think less of other folks that enjoy those things? Making fun of then for being dateless, friendless, lame, and not going out to bang at least four different chicks every weekend? Of course they're idiots. Close-minded also, and jerks.



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30 Jun 2011, 10:53 am

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You mean people that think less of other folks that enjoy those things? Making fun of then for being dateless, friendless, lame, and not going out to bang at least four different chicks every weekend? Of course they're idiots. Close-minded also, and jerks.


How could I mean that, you wrote nothing about that in the opening post? I can't see how thinking negatively about playing video games and watching anime all the time would be equal to making fun of someone.


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30 Jun 2011, 4:11 pm

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Quite honestly, no I would not want to be around you .


at least you're honest



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30 Jun 2011, 11:26 pm

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If you didn't smell bad then friends. I have extremley sensitive smell and can't be around people who make me feel ill unless forced to.


Even if I took baths (which is nearly impossible because the bathroom is filthy and rat-infested with no hot water), my house is nasty so the smell will still stick to me.



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01 Jul 2011, 1:13 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
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You people are liars. There's no way any of you would want to be bothered with me. From my real life experience, it seems you people are blowing smoke up my ass.

I mean I haven't bathe in 3 months and I fungi growning on me! No one would hang out with me in public, I'm a bum and I would make them look bad in front of everyone.

It would be even worse with women. I'd get treated worse then how I was in my teens, where I was made fun of constantly by those whores because of how my face looked and how stupid I was. I've never kissed a girl and haven't so much as hugged a girl my age in like 8-9 years. Even if I wanted to date, what qualities do I have to attract women? I know most of them like to brag about who they're going out with. lol would who would brag about me?

Let's see:

They like strong-minded, mentally-tough men. I'm neither

They like for men to be charming and interesting. I can't hold a conversation if my life depended on it and I have the charisma of a tree.

They like men that are good looking and that practice basic hygiene. I'm hideously ugly and I haven't bathe in 3 months, nuff said.

They like men that are smart, educated, and have prospects for a good future. I'm stupid, I have nothing more than a 5th grade education, and I'm poor. Needless to say I have no future.

See? I have nothing to offer anyone. I'm a useless special ed bum who will spend the rest of his life alone. Why should I even be alive?


I have hung out with pleanty of bums.....yes homeless, smelly, unbathed bums.


That's very nice of you, but I don't see anybody else doing that let alone admitting to it.

No one wants to been seen talking or socializing with a bum/ret*d in as it'll affect their standing to other people in society. People like me are trash and lowlifes to them. We are nothing more than burdens and nuisances that would be better off dead.



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01 Jul 2011, 3:32 pm

MR20 wrote:
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If you didn't smell bad then friends. I have extremley sensitive smell and can't be around people who make me feel ill unless forced to.


Even if I took baths (which is nearly impossible because the bathroom is filthy and rat-infested with no hot water), my house is nasty so the smell will still stick to me.

Perhaps you should look into some sort of supported living arrangements? They could help provide a sanitary living environment and help you socialize.


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