Anyone 18+ and Never Kissed?

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I never kissed until age 41. I had intense anxiety, a moderate amount of paranoia, major depression, poor hygiene - most of which was part of a PDD, not well, treated until 'now'. The girl said I was good at it.

I'm 21 and never kissed. Been on a few dates though. But that's ok. I know I need to take things slow physically, and I know there are a few things I need to fix before I try getting romantically involved again. For example, thanks to AS, I'm terrible at perceiving emotions beyond the basics (happy, sad, angry etc) in myself and others. When dating, that usually means I take forever to make decisions about how I feel about people. So I end up agreeing with the guy and don't know what I'm feeling until after the fact. That got me into trouble with my previous "boyfriend". If I were with anyone less benevolent, I could've really been taken advantage of. Also, from my point of view, a kiss should be a sign of love, admiration, and respect. I only have that for so many people...

I am 26, and I have never had a girlfriend, never been on a date (even as friends), nor never had a kiss (even as friends). I have had a couple of friendship hugs, but that has been it so far.

22, never kissed anyone (meant with erotic motivation), never dated anyone, never had a serious crush on someone.

I'm so confused.
generally when someone shows interest there friends tell them they shouldn't talk to me.
is this a common thing?
and just approaching them is like staring a gun to the face. its f*****g scary.

imagine a woman is actually about to hand you a number and one of her other female friends stops her at the last moment and tells you to f**k off.
now imagine this happening over and over.
the universe is unfair...

its scary enough just to approach someone but now i have to fear the people they associate with too
dose this happen to anyone ells? is there a specific term for this?

no. i never kissed anyone. for confusing reasons

I was 24. Don't feel rushed or pressured.
Sure, earlier probably would've been better, but whatever, I had enough going on earlier as it was ... okay, so maybe nothing all that noteworthy relationship-wise earlier, but ... whatever.

Not only have I never kissed, I'm not entirely sure how everyone figured out what you're supposed to do when you kiss. I know that there aren't many verbs for your mouth, but even Google searches have proven inconclusive!

I'm 24, and you can probably figure out the rest.

I'm 25 and just never had the courage to ask a girl out. Maybe I'm just shy or possibly underconfident. Never had my "first kiss" either.

Never. Didn't have the chance.

I'm 19 and never been kissed. I'm dying to know what it's like, I even pretend that I'm making out with someone just because I'm dying of curiosity. I want to love someone that will love me back, but I'm not sure how to get it. It's too bad I hate socializing because I'm awkward at it.

I'm almost 19, and I've never held hands, kissed, or been on a date with anyone. Unless you count that time I had to kiss another actor on the cheek for a scene in a play...