Why aren't I good enough for a woman how I am?

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sly, I still think you should try antidepressants. I know you have been reluctant, but they really do help.

You are living in an angry world of your own making. You need to get out of it, you've been there too long.

I haven't bothered reading all of the answers, but sly, you're clearly depressed. You rage and cry and catastrophize. No amount of whatever BS people will say here that you are the only one responsible for you people say matters when you the reality is that free-will probably doesn't even f*****g exist. Now go get on some drugs and try some therapy to make yourself happy. I bet that if you'd find a woman who was good enough and then you'd constantly be upset in the relationship anyways because you're an unhappy person. You'd be constantly worried that she was thinking poorly of you, you'd be reading too much into her actions and words, god knows how you'd deal with arguments, etc.

Hey I am poor, however other things aside from money make me rich in other ways. Being poor is not that bad unless you are barely surviving. But it may be difficult if you are after money. Have you ever assessed whether you have talents?

Sly. As long as you don't tell anyone you are planning to kill yourself, you will not lose your rights. I'm 100% positive you have nothing to lose by talking to a psychologist. Ask a family member for help finding someone if you need to.

It's better to talk to someone who is professionally trained than expect random people on a message board for autism to be 100% helpful. Some people here just do not get that you can't "criticize" a person in your situation into having a "better attitude". They do not understand. Getting angry at them won't make them understand. You need to talk to someone who actually knows the right things to say. Otherwise you'll just keep getting yourself more upset.

I think so. Despite my situation, I gladly help people who are just as unfortunate or may be unfortunate in another way. I feel enriched by being altruistic. No amount of money can give me the satisfaction a grateful "thank you" can give me.

Money does not buy happiness. On one hand, it can lead you to be in debt and on the other, if you get more money, greed begins to take over and then your longing for money is never satisfied.

If I won the lottery, I'd probably stow it on a bank account so I am secured with a modest life style and I would probably put a portion of it towards a center for people with learning disabilities or sponsor a program that assists the handicapped in finding employment. Otherwise, I wouldn't know what to do with money.

i rarely notice which sub-forum i'm in when i post. just checked and saw this is the haven. hugs to sly.