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10 Feb 2021, 12:33 am

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The simplest answer is that the perbpatrators who preyed on you were men. Women aren't as compulsive/desperate.

They weren't men. They were pedophiles.


um...well...that's a matter of interpretation



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10 Feb 2021, 8:15 am

The pedos would be after power. A woman who's attracted to you will be coming from a different place altogether. I think that's the difference.


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10 Feb 2021, 9:15 am

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The simplest answer is that the perpatrators who preyed on you were men. Women aren't as compulsive/desperate.


Not just men but paedos.

Presumably the women aren't sex-offenders, like Glynn Maxwell types, but decent women.

Decent women (men/non-binary people whatever) will want for both parties to be attracted to each other.

Unless they then leave you out of their lives, the friend zone is an underrated place.

If they then go onto cut you out of their life, that's sad but their prerogative.

Paedos are 'attracted' to autistic children because autistic children are even more vulnerable than NT kids. I know I experienced that as a kid.

Paedos look out for lonely kids to abuse. :(

Decent women (and other genders...) will be more interested in dating adults who either have a good sense of themselves as individuals or have a good network around them.


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10 Feb 2021, 9:27 am

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The pedos would be after power.  A woman who's attracted to you will be coming from a different place altogether.  I think that's the difference.
Elaborate, please?


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10 Feb 2021, 9:42 am

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The pedos would be after power.  A woman who's attracted to you will be coming from a different place altogether.  I think that's the difference.
Elaborate, please?


Rapists want to hurt people. Rape is fundamentally about power. A child molester is a rapist. Children cannot consent and child abusers know that. They get a kick out of a selfish act and don't care what risks they're taking.

Adults who aren't rapists and are into adults want to have consensual sex. Coming either from a place of love or a place of mutual physical attraction.


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10 Feb 2021, 9:45 am

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... Adults who aren't rapists and are into adults want to have consensual sex. Coming either from a place of love or a place of mutual physical attraction.
That is not always the case.  Otherwise, there would be much less pron featuring consensual bondage and domination.


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10 Feb 2021, 11:05 am

This guy was my professor in college:
https://www.styleweekly.com/richmond/se ... id=1905279
https://richmond.com/news/local/central ... 6ab72.html

We bumped heads a lot and had mutual resentment. Took me all of 2 minutes to understand from Wikipedia what he couldn't explain and patronized me about for a whole semester. I disparaged him to other students and they were always surprised, because they all loved him. I guess I didn't look tasty to him as I looked like hell and was near-bald in my early 20s.

Incidentally he killed himself only a few months after I graduated, and news reached me quickly. I might have gloated a little... Is it wrong?



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10 Feb 2021, 11:06 am

Fnord wrote:
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... Adults who aren't rapists and are into adults want to have consensual sex. Coming either from a place of love or a place of mutual physical attraction.
That is not always the case.  Otherwise, there would be much less pron featuring consensual bondage and domination.


Subs fancy doms.

If they don't then it's not consensual BDSM. It's rape.

Just because they carry out a fantasy doesn't make it a reality.


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10 Feb 2021, 12:54 pm

It's not as common as amongst men.....but there are definitely female sexual predators, too.



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10 Feb 2021, 1:32 pm

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This guy was my professor in college:
https://www.styleweekly.com/richmond/se ... id=1905279
https://richmond.com/news/local/central ... 6ab72.html

We bumped heads a lot and had mutual resentment. Took me all of 2 minutes to understand from Wikipedia what he couldn't explain and patronized me about for a whole semester. I disparaged him to other students and they were always surprised, because they all loved him. I guess I didn't look tasty to him as I looked like hell and was near-bald in my early 20s.

Incidentally he killed himself only a few months after I graduated, and news reached me quickly. I might have gloated a little... Is it wrong?

There are studies which confirm imagining revenge on people is beneficial while acting on it is negative on the individual, bringing forth guilt and making it worse without actually granting relief.

What does this tell you? [stab that mf in his grave, he's where he belongs, with his fellow worms]


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10 Feb 2021, 1:59 pm

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There are studies which confirm imagining revenge on people is beneficial while acting on it is negative on the individual, bringing forth guilt and making it worse without actually granting relief...

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Ahh ... revenge ... I have had many fantasies about how I would exact revenge upon those who have hurt me, when instead I would have been fully satisfied with sincere apologies and offers of restitution -- vindication, not vengeance.

However, there was one couple ... she I were becoming friends when he moved in and "stole" her from me.  Years later, he died.  The Mystery Writers' Club I was in met soon after and (as usual) discussed our ideas on the "perfect" crime; specifically, a murder committed in such a way that would look like an accidental or natural death.  The example I used closely matched the circumstances surrounding the demise of the deceased interloper.  One of the other people in the club worked for a life insurance company...

The police soon re-opened the investigation into the interloper's death, with many interrogations of his widow, who subsequently apologized to me for treating me so badly.

Did my participation in the talk at the Mystery Writers' Club lead to my personal vindication?  I like to think so.  Did it also cause her undue emotional distress?  At the time, I did not even consider it, as her and her late husband had made a big joke of me when talking about how they had met.  I still do not believe she suffered unduly from the case being re-opened.

Yeah, I am a jerk.


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10 Feb 2021, 3:15 pm

Rapists want to hurt people as in break them, damage them, bring them down into mental breakdowns, have total control over them, ruin their lives, almost like a 'murder' without actually killing them (sorry if that is triggering OP). They use sex as a weapon to hurt people with and to gain control.

Consensual BDSM Dons want to 'hurt' people as in get their consent outside of it, use a safe word during it, make them use a safe word, inflict physical pain and humiliation on them, give a crap about if they're over 15 or not, give a crap if they're into them or not, perform aftercare, not break them emotionally in terms of severe pain. It's still primarily about something being hot.

There's an in between space but that belongs to the realm of fantasy. People should know not to cross that line just because they can imagine it. Heck, I've said 'I'd kill you' in an argument before - doesn't mean I mean it...

In any case, all paedophiles need medical health for a severe problem with who they find attractive. And any paedo acting on it is a child molestor. Child molestors - and paedos looking to become molestors rather than looking for ways to repress that urge - are scum.

I feel like most women will be a third group to that - the 'I don't want to hurt anyone through sex' category. Of course some innocent women are in the second group, but I assume everyone's vanilla til proven otherwise.


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10 Feb 2021, 3:28 pm

r00tb33r wrote:
This guy was my professor in college:
https://www.styleweekly.com/richmond/se ... id=1905279
https://richmond.com/news/local/central ... 6ab72.html

We bumped heads a lot and had mutual resentment. Took me all of 2 minutes to understand from Wikipedia what he couldn't explain and patronized me about for a whole semester. I disparaged him to other students and they were always surprised, because they all loved him. I guess I didn't look tasty to him as I looked like hell and was near-bald in my early 20s.

Incidentally he killed himself only a few months after I graduated, and news reached me quickly. I might have gloated a little... Is it wrong?


I had a highschool teacher who asked his female students for coffee at his home. One student took him up on his offer and while they were at his house (she recounted the story when she came back to school) he asked her to stay the night. She told him her parents would be worried and she left. Nothing ever happened to this lecher because it was the early 1980s, Last I heard he retired with his reputation intact.



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10 Feb 2021, 4:07 pm

I'm so sorry that you've been abused.


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10 Feb 2021, 10:29 pm

r00tb33r wrote:
This guy was my professor in college:
https://www.styleweekly.com/richmond/se ... id=1905279
https://richmond.com/news/local/central ... 6ab72.html

We bumped heads a lot and had mutual resentment. Took me all of 2 minutes to understand from Wikipedia what he couldn't explain and patronized me about for a whole semester. I disparaged him to other students and they were always surprised, because they all loved him. I guess I didn't look tasty to him as I looked like hell and was near-bald in my early 20s.

Incidentally he killed himself only a few months after I graduated, and news reached me quickly. I might have gloated a little... Is it wrong?

Very similar experience, this teacher was an ass, gave us lower grades than deserved because high grades 'are for teachers' and asked questions that he didn't teach us. He would also make fun of me sometimes and pick of my painted nails, one day i cried hard after he gave me a bad grade and picked on me in the same class. But everyone knew he was mean.

The principal always showed off his special elected teachers [since it was a religious highschool] and he sat to his right side and was drunk and he grabbed girls asses on the ending prom and I had a bad feeling and kept pulling away in his arms in the dance and giggled nervously and eventually went to my chair. Later my classmates told me hes been grabbing their asses and he walked over to my chair and spoke into my ear 'you're stupid' just ruined my night a bit but classmates calmed me down cause everyone but the principal knew he was a complete as*hole.

mom later told me he was hrr teacher and slapped childrens fingers with measuring rulers if they didn't behave or know the answers. A lot of people probably know about him and even though hes old hes still teaching.


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10 Feb 2021, 10:33 pm

Rexi wrote:
r00tb33r wrote:
This guy was my professor in college:
https://www.styleweekly.com/richmond/se ... id=1905279
https://richmond.com/news/local/central ... 6ab72.html

We bumped heads a lot and had mutual resentment. Took me all of 2 minutes to understand from Wikipedia what he couldn't explain and patronized me about for a whole semester. I disparaged him to other students and they were always surprised, because they all loved him. I guess I didn't look tasty to him as I looked like hell and was near-bald in my early 20s.

Incidentally he killed himself only a few months after I graduated, and news reached me quickly. I might have gloated a little... Is it wrong?

Very similar experience, this teacher was an ass, gave us lower grades than deserved because high grades 'are for teachers' and asked questions that he didn't teach us. He would also make fun of me sometimes and pick of my painted nails, one day i cried hard after he gave me a bad grade and picked on me in the same class. But everyone knew he was mean.

The principal always showed off his special elected teachers [since it was a religious highschool] and he sat to his right side and was drunk and he grabbed girls asses on the ending prom and I had a bad feeling and kept pulling away in his arms in the dance and giggled nervously and eventually went to my chair. Later my classmates told me hes been grabbing their asses and he walked over to my chair and spoke into my ear 'you're stupid' just ruined my night a bit but classmates calmed me down cause everyone but the principal knew he was a complete as*hole.

mom later told me he was hrr teacher and slapped childrens fingers with measuring rulers if they didn't behave or know the answers. A lot of people probably know about him and even though hes old hes still teaching.


Was he reported?