Still stuck in a private school at 21

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Sorry op that must be difficult for you

There's nothing wrong with that and it's not ableist or anything, why is it in quotes What's next it's wrong to be a furry?

Because it's jargon blitz isn't super familiar with.

Now they told me they don't believe that I'm a glutton, they want me to starve forever

I'm curious about this as well. Since you are legally an adult why do you have to stay at the private school? Are you in a conservatorship where your parents are able to take legal guardianship over you as an adult? Is this a K-12 school, a university, or some sort of care facility/mental health institution?

I'm not to sound accusatory/offensive--I'm just trying to understand the context of your situation so people can maybe give you some legal advice that is more relevant. What is stopping you from reaching out to care facilities in your area and transferring to a safer place? Are you legally bound to stay in this place?

I'm sorry you're going through this traumatic situation... Sounds like this place is causing more hurt than it is helping. I hope things get better for you soon.

They are going to force me to wear a helmet now (I hit myself when I hear my trigger words). I am NOT THAT "severe".

Hmmmm not sure what to say about that my friend

What are you trying to do to get out of this situation? Seems that several people have attempted to give you advice/ask clarifying questions about your situation to provide better guidance, but you avoid it to make posts like this...

Not sure what we can do to help if you are unwilling to help/advocate for yourself.

They don't understand that I am NORMAL. If I call the cops or something I might be the one who gets arrested because they will lie.

Sorry, I don't know how we can help you. You are going to have to do some work and research on your own to get yourself out of this situation.

Do you think there is a crime being committed against you because if you do then you need to call the police

Like these. I KNOW people will come to my house if I call these, and I don't want to be sent back to ableist psych wards. I know these people or my parents will lie to them if anyone comes to my house.

people have asked this so I'm asking again: Are you in a conservatorship? Why are you in a private school setting at the age of 21? You are legally an adult, they have no right to do that unless you are under some sort of thing. Could you elaborate on your situation please, if you are able to.

FYI ...there are different levels of advancement( or not ) ....And occassionally you might run into a Aspie
whom does self harm...to be able to vent, due to potentially inadequate language/ social skills .
Am speculating based on my repeated experience with ASD folk at this level . Can only suppose ,that the OP might be a head banger.
When Early in Life if your parents, parenting skills are not up to the task of raising ND child . And the child not knowing or understanding better, at that early age . Might have been severely disciplined,When they tried to speak out about
or make noise about their frustrations. Its a viscious circle .Parents do not understand or cant supply enough compassion.For unknown reasons . Since the child gets abuse when they are frustrated , they turn to basic early Aspie self harm patterns. Head banging , biting themselves or others....If older and not sorted as they age .. There might be different variations on self abuse..Just my Opinion ..Based on my new friends ,experiences , and mine with observing and listening to what he says . And growing up with a non- verbal Sister.

I think so because my parents refer to themselves as conservators (a lot of big words are hard to understand) but I said in a different thread that I have attachment issues

Thank for you this, FXE.

Yeah, I wasn't intending to make fun or anything. It's just mostly unfamiliar to me as FXE said, hence the quotes.