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spudnik
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26 Mar 2008, 2:36 pm

this gets me every time
Are You Done?



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26 Mar 2008, 6:12 pm

Is your period going to start?

You're not gonna get all nuts like your mother, are you?

You are your father's child! (Sadly, this is true)



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04 Apr 2008, 5:04 pm

Sorry for bumping this, but I had to add "Only you can help you." That is not true all the time. Sometimes the only way people can help themselves is by looking for help.



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04 Apr 2008, 5:06 pm

UtukXul wrote:
Sorry for bumping this, but I had to add "Only you can help you." That is not true all the time. Sometimes the only way people can help themselves is by looking for help.
Oops, that was me. I'm sorry. :( I was using Rich's computer and forgot to log out.


Anyway, I was going to add that when people refuse to show you compassion or comfort you because "only you can help you", that's almost double the malignancy.