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25 Mar 2009, 9:26 pm

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
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Can anyone teach me how to be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic? So I can just stop feeling. Feeling causes pain.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get angry!

I am angry, it's just everyone laughs at me, doesn't care, or pokes fun as if I'm a harmless minnow. So I want to be unfeeling to counter their uncaring attitude.

Stop cooperating with them. No one can make you feel anything without your cooperation, so just stop it!

Maybe what you really want is their approval. Screw that. You don't need the approval of anyone so mean, so give it up.


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25 Mar 2009, 9:35 pm

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Hmm, you sound like you have a lot of anger but you're channeling it inward instead of outward.

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I want to OWN the super-smart-asses!

I'm curious, have you ever told your parents that? I don't mean to own their asses, but tell them exactly in that way that you want to own those other people's super-smart-asses?


Nope, my former friends made me believe I needed to. I left them for that reason, but I'm still mad at them.



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25 Mar 2009, 9:39 pm

Fnord wrote:
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Fnord wrote:
Fickle_Pickle wrote:
Can anyone teach me how to be bitter, uncaring and sarcastic? So I can just stop feeling. Feeling causes pain.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get angry!

I am angry, it's just everyone laughs at me, doesn't care, or pokes fun as if I'm a harmless minnow. So I want to be unfeeling to counter their uncaring attitude.

Stop cooperating with them. No one can make you feel anything without your cooperation, so just stop it!


How do I do that? What thoughts should go through my head when I'm doing so?

This thread is mostly about how I wish I had a "thicker skin."



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26 Mar 2009, 3:20 am

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Hi Ms. Pickle! How are ya doing lately?

I trust you don't mind that a got a real chuckle out of this one. Do you remember all the replies you posted on your 10 page thread concerning your appearance and being an aspie. Come on are you trying to tell us that the words you wrote showed consideration to the feelings of the people who wrote them. I don't think so. Nothing anyone wrote was good enough for you. Unless, perhaps, you felt as though we were treating you too kindly since you did mention that you can be/or are masochistic.

Along with those demonic rodents, I also realize it was because I thought the whole "I'm liek, the MFing princess!" act I was putting on would suit my appearance, it failed, though, as I realize I am just worthless.

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I do realize that my words in my reply have not been exactly pleasant. But I just don't understand the situation. With all the things you have written on this website you could give us lessons on being bitter, uncaring and sarcastic.


Um, no I can't. I'm actually more sensitive than you like to think I am. I cry all the time. Bitter and uncaring people would not do that. There are people who are more bitter, uncaring and sarcastic that I just can't compete with. Also, it's not so much about not caring about other people as it is just not caring about my own feelings and bottling them up in the proper way. In fact, with your harsh response, I think you might be better at giving the lesson, as you seem to know what you're doing and know exactly what you think on this subject.


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So if you do such a good job at being bitter, uncaring and sarcastic unintentionally why bother to do it deliberately.


Um, like I said, if you only knew the people I knew who were 10x as better than me at that. They make me look like a total idiot who doesn't know what she's talking about, but I swear, I want to have control over this power to pwn them because I crack under pressure.


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Perhaps your demons could teach you how to reach your goal.

By the way I just signed by name to my last thread, but I didn't really write it. The Kitchen b***h made me do it. I swear it's true.

irene aka the kitchen b***h aka the doobie


Yup, I'm certain I found the perfect mentor and bad influence I'm looking for. I should listen to you more often.

Did you also know that I learned that sarcastic people don't' care? So I was hoping to learn how to not care.



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26 Mar 2009, 5:05 am

Yes, I could use a beating to just beat some sense into me or beat my naivete out.



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03 Jun 2009, 9:27 am

I couldn't help but bump this as I keep hearing voices from this thread. I may be a freak, but I just can't get giggly about war, or just have my cares go slack.

Xelebes wrote:
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So I can just stop feeling. Feeling causes pain.


But that is letting your emotions go out sideways.


What's wrong with that?

And since I am channeling my anger inward, how am I supposed to channel it outward? How???



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04 Jun 2009, 3:29 am

Really.