Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent

Post Reply New Topic

13-5 (X2),



20- 5 2-5 13-9-19-21-14-4-5-18-19-20-15--15-4 9-19 20-8-5 23-15-18-19-20

Dear you,

As it’s cushionary in those brinkets of smeary gliss, the brighty tirth zoon lawned on me. ’Twas unrelievable. Your speyes birded by the lemon-ale made me spurst with draughter.

I thought I saw a grue.

I’ll pepper nor give myself for clumlessly pampering that sway. It screally hucks.

Sever bust those who smay your sponge meads to resh.

Yours mistfully,
me

Dear you,

I miss the connection even through chaos and disconnect. It would be fascinating to hear your insights.

Dear you,

You have an interesting viewpoint, and a lyrical way with language.

From,
Reminiscent Regina

Dear I*,

I'm sorry I don't answer your questions so directly. I'm just not comfortable answering them. Honestly, I might like you. But I just don't feel like there's anything to gain by admitting that to you, for a variety of reasons. For one, I desperately need friends, far more than I need a girlfriend. You've proven to be a great friend, who's both understanding and caring and willing to help me grow as a person. I'd give anything to have friends like that. But the fact is, you had a boyfriend when I met you, and I didn't expect you to be single. And even if you were going to be single, I knew my best friend had a massive crush on you. I can't lose both my best friend a good friend over something so pitiful as a simple crush. It's not like we'd work out anyway, you're incredibly beautiful and mature and I'm just a beta male alcoholic suffering from mental illness. Why do you like me, anyway? Just stick with him, he can make you happy, I offer you nothing. I really just need friends right now, please be a friend and don't pressure me to be anything else, I'm not mentally capable of making a girl like you happy. I mean, even with that said, I'd salvage my life savings to have a girl like you in my life, but who cares? I want to date girls who can relate to my struggles with autism, you're extroverted and have far too much going for you to waste your time with an autistic loser like me.

Love always,
who cares

Dear R

You always say "Call me/text me anytime" in the case of times of trouble or worry.

Yet when I actually do....you don't answer my text or call.

One of our favorite animals might have died this weekend. I texted you my concerns. You never replied. You've done that before. You're a fair weather friend. You don't mind cheerful chats, but when something sad or bad is actually happening, you avoid me. You don't want to deal with me when I'm upset or worried. That's not being a friend.

A friend is supportive when their friend is worried or sad.

When I'm worried or sad, you disappear and I can't reach you. I then don't hear from you for weeks.

Thanks a lot.

I've decided I'm not going to play nice next time I happen to run into you probably weeks from now. Because it sends you a message that it's okay that you ignored and avoided me when I actually could have used a friendly voice on the line in a time of worry. It's NOT okay.

It reminds me about the first time I had to put a pet to sleep for terminal illness, and the guy I was dating refused to accompany me to the vets for moral support. I had to go alone, and bury my cat alone.

This is slightly different but still, someone is leaving me alone in it.

Forget you. This is not a friendship. You always think I'm too emotional about things. You think I worry too much. You don't even believe me when i tell you I'm WIRED to "worry too much." Don't think I'm not always trying to manage that better. I am. But you don't help when you don't even accept that it's a natural default and managing it is also helped along by understanding, not putting me down for being that way in the first place.

You are not supportive of my challenges caused by my neurology. I could use JUST A LITTLE understanding about the fact that I AM WHO I AM.

You don't actually accept me for myself. You think everyone ought to be like your mother, who is the hardest hearted person I think I've ever heard of. I wasn't even BORN to be like she is. None of my family were like her. I don't know why you think you like me even a little, as a friend, when apparently nothing I do, say or think is "right" in your eyes.

I'm done. You're not supportive. Ever.

Short answer: No.

I will assume responsibility for my actions, but i couldn't think of any worse responses to get. Trying to stabilize an unstable mind here. Not really my business if you're a f*****g piece of s**t failure of a monster anyway.

Dear you-know-who,

You already know what I'm going to say.

Signed, me.

Dear someone special,

I will never use your school email to contact you, that is for formal information. And there is no point in hiding your contact information on the website for that one lab you are in. I have access to the school email system and its database of emails.

Stalky,
Someone Special Too

Dear you,

You have to see the hypocrisy. Does it have entertainment value? That prior statement wasn't about you at all. I still haven't learned my d#mn lesson, but I'm getting there.

Sincerely,
Trigger

Dear you

You can't have it both ways.

From Me

Dear friend

Your message was very thoughtful and I wish that we had the opportunity to say goodbye properly too, I will miss you all dearly.
I don't know how to reply, niceties seem so insincere for someone like you, but I fear that an honest reply would do more harm than good.

From me

i hope you'll realise one day that i didn't mean to hurt you for a nano second, and if you'd ever need a friend, i'm always here.

Dear person who left:

I don't know what lead you to leaving and I don't blame you for whatever reason it was. However I am still glad for the things I got to share and I will think of you now and then. I am glad for what little time I had to know you, I just wish it could have been for a much longer time.

Dear ------

If you don't tell me what I've done wrong, how should I know what to apologize for?

Confused