01 Apr 2023, 7:58 pm
Rexi
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Location: "I know there's nothing we can do. But my heart can't accept it." "If this is real, then I want to change the future."
01 Apr 2023, 8:00 pm
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Recidivist wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
As you know lots of people approach me for support for themselves and others, but I always say with regrets that I don't have the spoons to overextend myself with new friends. I'm too busy with my own trauma to get invested in other people's trauma, and it wouldn't be fair to any of us.
And then you feel guilty, and defective for not being able to do this.
Yeah, and then people write crap like what Pepe just said, telling me that I've been hounded out and I'm a gossip when in reality I don't want anything to do with other people's problems. Pepe asked me to befriend his partner and I said no, because I was overextended. Pepe's partner asked me to support her and I said the same, although I did say I would help her on the forum as needed. Her previous partner accused me of supporting her when I wasn't. I reiterated to Pepe in February that I don't want anything to do with gossip. Now other people think I'm supporting or gossiping to all of them, or even to others, and apparently I'm taking sides LMAOOOO when in reality I've had all sorts of people writing to me for information which I'm not giving, because again that's not my style and I repeat I don't want anything to do with this -- except to help other women on the forum.
It's not easy being a decent person is it?
I'm sorry but there is a lie about me. And further content that needs clarification.
It was never my intent to befriend, and as such I had no reason to want anything from her, I was just pming for clarification because she was talking to me in a necroed thread by my ex, apparently not noticing it was necroed, but i was hiding in pms at the time. Anything else than that is horses**t.
At the time I wasnt even ready for friendships.
She was explained these things to better than to anyone else.
I was offered "protection" at a vulnerable time in my life. It was never asked for, nor delivered. I also believe mods should be protecting me, not members.
I already knew she rejected Pepes proposal for me, and I didnt even bring it up myself. Never talked after.
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Last edited by Rexi on 01 Apr 2023, 8:49 pm, edited 2 times in total.
01 Apr 2023, 8:03 pm
01 Apr 2023, 8:06 pm
01 Apr 2023, 8:09 pm
01 Apr 2023, 8:21 pm
Back on topic:
I blame cartoons, not entirely, but cartoons of a certain era portrayed unacceptable behaviour as acceptable/funny/cute to impressionable young autistic minds. Don't watch cartoons any more so don't know if it's still relevant (having said that, I just downloaded every Hong Kong Phooey episode 
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01 Apr 2023, 9:31 pm
01 Apr 2023, 9:32 pm
01 Apr 2023, 9:32 pm
Recidivist wrote:
(having said that, I just downloaded every Hong Kong Phooey episode )
)Yeah I used to watch that back in the 1970s, not exactly a culturally sensitive work of animation
01 Apr 2023, 9:44 pm
Recidivist wrote:
Back on topic:
I blame cartoons, not entirely, but cartoons of a certain era portrayed unacceptable behaviour as acceptable/funny/cute to impressionable young autistic minds. Don't watch cartoons any more so don't know if it's still relevant (having said that, I just downloaded every Hong Kong Phooey episode )
I blame cartoons, not entirely, but cartoons of a certain era portrayed unacceptable behaviour as acceptable/funny/cute to impressionable young autistic minds. Don't watch cartoons any more so don't know if it's still relevant (having said that, I just downloaded every Hong Kong Phooey episode
)OMG I loved Hong Kong Phooey. Is that the one where he goes into a filing cabinet at the opening credits? I used to watch it when my brother went to hockey practice.
01 Apr 2023, 9:49 pm
01 Apr 2023, 9:52 pm
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Recidivist wrote:
Back on topic:
I blame cartoons, not entirely, but cartoons of a certain era portrayed unacceptable behaviour as acceptable/funny/cute to impressionable young autistic minds. Don't watch cartoons any more so don't know if it's still relevant (having said that, I just downloaded every Hong Kong Phooey episode )
I blame cartoons, not entirely, but cartoons of a certain era portrayed unacceptable behaviour as acceptable/funny/cute to impressionable young autistic minds. Don't watch cartoons any more so don't know if it's still relevant (having said that, I just downloaded every Hong Kong Phooey episode
)OMG I loved Hong Kong Phooey. Is that the one where he goes into a filing cabinet at the opening credits? I used to watch it when my brother went to hockey practice.
That's the one, Who is this superhero? Sarge? No! Rosemary, the telephone operator? No way man! Penry, the mild-mannered janitor? Could be!
01 Apr 2023, 10:05 pm
Scooby Doo was on at the same time and I used to get sooo confused by Scooby Doo because I don't understand inductive thinking (bottom up clue solving) and I can't make inferences or think in terms of strategy. It did my head in. Today's equivalent would be Survivor which I can't understand to save my life. I just can't think that way in terms of groupthink, plotting, or being deceptive the way they do.
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Sidenote:
How about everyone here takes a chill-pill and agrees that we can all coexist in one place and do our best to help each other? I don't know about you but I'm tired of all this Scooby Doo-type drama on the site lately. This is so much nicer.
Thank you White Knight and all others.
Now where's Raleigh and WAI?
01 Apr 2023, 10:29 pm
01 Apr 2023, 10:39 pm
Rexi wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Recidivist wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
As you know lots of people approach me for support for themselves and others, but I always say with regrets that I don't have the spoons to overextend myself with new friends. I'm too busy with my own trauma to get invested in other people's trauma, and it wouldn't be fair to any of us.
And then you feel guilty, and defective for not being able to do this.
Yeah, and then people write crap like what Pepe just said, telling me that I've been hounded out and I'm a gossip when in reality I don't want anything to do with other people's problems. Pepe asked me to befriend his partner and I said no, because I was overextended. Pepe's partner asked me to support her and I said the same, although I did say I would help her on the forum as needed. Her previous partner accused me of supporting her when I wasn't. I reiterated to Pepe in February that I don't want anything to do with gossip. Now other people think I'm supporting or gossiping to all of them, or even to others, and apparently I'm taking sides LMAOOOO when in reality I've had all sorts of people writing to me for information which I'm not giving, because again that's not my style and I repeat I don't want anything to do with this -- except to help other women on the forum.
It's not easy being a decent person is it?
I'm sorry but there is a lie about me. And further content that needs clarification.
It was never my intent to befriend, and as such I had no reason to want anything from her, I was just pming for clarification because she was talking to me in a necroed thread by my ex, apparently not noticing it was necroed, but i was hiding in pms at the time. Anything else than that is horses**t.
At the time I wasnt even ready for friendships.
She was explained these things to better than to anyone else.
I was offered "protection" at a vulnerable time in my life. It was never asked for, nor delivered. I also believe mods should be protecting me, not members.
I already knew she rejected Pepes proposal for me, and I didnt even bring it up myself. Never talked after.
REPORTED.
I lied and said horse s**t?
Good grief people. Grow up.
01 Apr 2023, 11:03 pm
Recidivist wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Recidivist wrote:
Isabella who are these white knights skunky boy alludes too , give me names I want to joust them
I don't see you as a white knight.
I see you as a good man who is loyal to his friends and will protect them.
Skunks can be that way too.
Thanks, but you only know the persona I allow to be visible on the open forum, such is the case with all here.
Good man is a stretch
When I said there's one WK I meant a good person who is loyal to everyone -- not just their friends.
That's the definition of a WK, as opposed to the phony type I joked about in that meme.
