I was lied to...by another Aspie

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That could be a major player in the problem...as people get older, long-term relationships become more important. For her, it may have been a little less important...a little less serious. I'm finding a similar issue in my relationship actually, but to far less a degree.

It's unfortunate when things fall to pieces with someone you have almost everything in common with. It's rare to find someone like that!

I dunno. It sounds like there was something really special going on there. You never know, it may come right...I wouldn't completely write it off yet...but keep your eyes and ears open for other options I'd say, just in case things have gone sour.

online thingy can be tricky sometimes .... ppl can trick you easily online , beleive me , don't believe everything said by ppl online , specially such emotional matters .
Maybe she was joking , maybe she was pretending , maybe she was playing ......so you can't never be sure .

Don't understand me wrong ...i am not saying you are fool ....but you are human and you may be tricked.

everyone can be tricked.

And it appears that she has once again entered a long period of being offline.

Tim

Why Tim??? People are people rather they are aspie or not. I could tell you some horror stories of some nit wits I've hooked up with, and I felt really stupid that I fell for their lines. One guy I broke up with because he cheated on me, SEVERAL TIMES, walks into where me and my sister worked, and made a crude sexual comment to her infront of my co-workers who knew I dated him. Then he goes and tells my mother that he and I had sex. So NOT TRUE. I was mortified, but my response was, either hes a liar, he doesn't know what it is, or ....he was so boring I don't remember it. The first of course is whats actually the truth. He was a marine,my dad was a marine, there's suppose to be some commeraderie there, not with this guy. You expect more loyalty from a woman who is aspie as she should be more understanding, but really Tim, is that how people are????? I don't always see that, look at neighbors fighting nieghbors,relatives fighting relatives,people fighting their own race. There's good and bad in people. Some choose the bad,some choose the good. You unfortunately fell, like I did, for the wrong person, move on, she's not worth your aggrivation.

Well, I'll say this about aspies, at least from what I've noticed anecdotally... we seem to be more forgiving than your average lot.

I finally heard from her a few days ago. Unfortunately, she had found someone else.

Because she left me hanging for over a year, I will NEVER forgive her for this (and normally, I am a very forgiving person). And she was the only Aspie woman who lived anywhere remotely near the college I will be attending this fall (she would have been about 150 miles from me).

She was one of only three Aspie women who was willing to do a long-distance relationship (the other were my ex-girlfriend, who lived in Minnesota, and a woman in Vermont)--and the only one of which I had anything in common with.

I just want to take my own life right now.

Tim