not where I'd thought I'd be in life

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kraftiekortie
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09 Nov 2016, 4:30 am

Where did you get 6 months? People who break their wrists spend six weeks in a cast, then a few weeks in rehab.

I broke my wrist when I was 14. I survived. I'm right-handed, and I broke my right wrist.

You can probably work with Nautilus-type weights: free weights might be more dangerous. Take the advice of your orthopedist.

You can do cardiovascular workouts. And work out your lower body.

There is no reason for despair. I know it's a pain in the butt.

There's no reason for doom and gloom.



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09 Nov 2016, 4:35 am

Yeah, just enjoy a perpetually single life. Remember that you are a tiny minority, and even f*****g nazis were able to get partners, but not you. Just sit back and smile as all your friends and family end up married whilst you're still utterly ignored by the opposite gender. Try not to think about how horrifically awful your looks and personality must be to end up in such a position, just smile and enjoy your f*****g hobbies.

Don't see anything wrong here.



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09 Nov 2016, 4:41 am

Not just broken, but dislocated as well.

I had surgery the other day and now have a metal plate in my wrist along with a cast to boot.

In about 2 weeks I should be able to take the cast off and I can even do some low-risk daily life activities with my right hand now, for example I can type with two hands again.

I'm looking forward to when these 2 weeks are up, because today was a very rough day emotionally for me.

After these two weeks my life should be pretty much back to normal again except I can't exercise.

Maybe in 4-8 weeks time I can start doing cardio activity again and light intensity bike rides.

According to the doctor, about 3 months minimum until I can lift heavy weights and do bodyweight exercises again like parkour, but more than likely 4-6 months.

I prefer to think the most latest possible healing time so I don't end up disappointed. So 6-8 months it is.

If you want me to think positive, I'm not sure if the 4-6 months is for EVERYONE or just for me, i.e. because I'm young it should heal faster, so if the 4-6 months is for anyone, young or old, then maybe it'll only take 4 months.

Anyway, I think we should get back to the original topic.

How's things going, Sly?



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09 Nov 2016, 4:42 am

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Ironically, I value my physical health over my life.

I'd rather die in a sports accident than survive but with an injury.

I'd rather I broke my neck and died instead of surviving with this broken wrist.

I'd rather have 1 year to live if I could spend that last year physically active and injury free.

I'd trade deadly cancer that'll kill me in a year as long as it didn't affect my physical abilities and had minimal effects on my mental health and concentration and functioning.

In my last days I'd blow the rest of my cash on risky extreme sports so when the time comes, I'd go out with a bang.

I wish I was joking, but I'm being entirely serious.

As someone who desperately wants good friends and true love, I'd actually be fine with living the rest of my life with no friends or girlfriend if it meant I could dedicate my time to my health and fitness, which is what I pretty much was doing before this little mishap.

I thought maybe this injury can help me relax and get over my unhealthy obsession with fitness, hopefully it will, because at the moment it's one of the few things that gives me reason to live.

But at least I don't rely on anyone for my happiness!

Nope, I don't depend on another person to make me happy, I can be happy on my own, so long as my body doesn't fail on me!

Can't wait until I'm 40! I'm sure my happiness depending entirely on having a healthy and powerful body won't be a bad thing then!

You don't always get to choose, I'm afraid.

It is possible to live with terminal cancer and associated physical and mental disabilities and still be reasonably happy.

You can say "I'd rather this than that" all you like but the reality is you've got to live with whatever life hands you.

That is what builds strength more than any physical fitness regime you can put yourself through.


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09 Nov 2016, 4:45 am

Sabreclaw wrote:
Yeah, just enjoy a perpetually single life. Remember that you are a tiny minority, and even f*****g nazis were able to get partners, but not you. Just sit back and smile as all your friends and family end up married whilst you're still utterly ignored by the opposite gender. Try not to think about how horrifically awful your looks and personality must be to end up in such a position, just smile and enjoy your f*****g hobbies.

Don't see anything wrong here.


Trust me, I still completely agree with you.

But in recent times somehow, in some way, my unhealthy obsession with achieving physical fitness actually surpassed my unhealthy obsession with finding true love, and THAT is really saying something.

To be honest, I'm not sure what's worse.

Since I care about fitness so much I'll constantly be putting myself at risk for injury and could end up crippled for life, but at least I increase my risk of accidental death.



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09 Nov 2016, 11:11 am

Most wrist fractures are accompanied by dislocations.

Mine was a fracture-dislocation, too.

I was in a cast 6 weeks, then I had rehabilitation.

I recovered.

And you will, too.

Just do the rehab properly.

And make sure you have a coat hanger to scratch the itch LOL



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09 Nov 2016, 4:26 pm

Outrider wrote:
Since I care about fitness so much I'll constantly be putting myself at risk for injury and could end up crippled for life, but at least I increase my risk of accidental death.


You'll have to do something quite a bit more dangerous than merely lifting weights and cycling to have any significant risk of accidental death with fitness activities.



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09 Nov 2016, 6:51 pm

I've never broken any bones or had any serious injury :(



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09 Nov 2016, 7:29 pm

Don't sound so disappointed :lol:


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