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24 Dec 2007, 6:47 pm

STOP! I worked with an AS guy 20, 21 or so. His mom shoved him off on a brother and he was ignored and hung himself at YMCA. What a waste to the world that he is no longer here. Never die, just touch peoples lives so your spirit improves the world. Things suck at times, we have all been there, but revenge is to live and conquer!!


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26 Dec 2007, 5:43 pm

fivecents wrote:
STOP! I worked with an AS guy 20, 21 or so. His mom shoved him off on a brother and he was ignored and hung himself at YMCA. What a waste to the world that he is no longer here. Never die, just touch peoples lives so your spirit improves the world. Things suck at times, we have all been there, but revenge is to live and conquer!!


Some mothers are simply god-awful b*****s. The god-awful b***h thing runs around like an infection.



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26 Dec 2007, 10:05 pm

Space Case.

The best way to kill yourself is not to.
I think Anna 54 said most of what I have to say, so I won't repeat it. We're all friends here, that's why we're here in the first place.

We just went through one of our members killing herself. It tore up a lot of people here and in her family. There are always ways to deal with something short of killing yourself.

If you're better, fine. If not, we're all still here.

Also, check your meds. Some of them (I don't know what you're taking or if) warn of suicidal tendencies. I take a couple of meds like that. They don't effect me that way, but my doctor was very careful getting me into them. And she gave me a bunch of very stern warnings about what to do if they started to effect me that way.

I have other thoughts on the subject, but if you're really okay, then they'll keep.

She'll hate me for saying this, but pm Anna. She's pretty sharp, and she's pretty young, and she sometimes says some very sensible things.

btdt



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27 Dec 2007, 12:48 am

you rock SpaceCase :P



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27 Dec 2007, 2:48 am

I'm choosing death by old age. I have absolutely no doubt that I will have to start the same garbage over again if I die now and I would just as soon put that off another fifty years or so.



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27 Dec 2007, 7:12 am

i s**t myself twice when reading this thread.

first was of fear, fear of another death on WP

other one was of relief, relief that you decided to live on. suicide is for cowards, living on is the best way to cope. remember, when life shoves s**t down your throat, spit and laugh. whenever i get sad, i laugh at my own misfortune and despair. that always makes me feel better



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30 Dec 2007, 1:11 pm

Kilroy wrote:
you rock SpaceCase :P
I concur :wink: I definitely think suicide is a state in which we are not ourselves. I read this book called the Noonday Demon about a man with major depression and he talked about suicide almost as if it were a separate disease. Suicide goes against our natural instinct to survive. If someone came at a suicidal person with a knife, the person would instinctively hold up their arms in defense, or swerve to avoid an accident. I really believe that when people are suicidal (on the brnk of suicide), they are besides their self. It's not so much that you were a coward that night. Dont feel bad. It's that you weren't yourself. And the real you, deep inside, knows that there might be something better out there, waiting for you to find it.



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02 Jan 2008, 8:11 pm

Here, have a Dragonache.

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03 Jan 2008, 7:28 pm

I'm probably just gonna drop out of school, and if that doesn't make things better, than I might find myself posting something like this.



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04 Jan 2008, 7:59 am

merr wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
you rock SpaceCase :P
I concur :wink: I definitely think suicide is a state in which we are not ourselves. I read this book called the Noonday Demon about a man with major depression and he talked about suicide almost as if it were a separate disease. Suicide goes against our natural instinct to survive. If someone came at a suicidal person with a knife, the person would instinctively hold up their arms in defense, or swerve to avoid an accident. I really believe that when people are suicidal (on the brnk of suicide), they are besides their self. It's not so much that you were a coward that night. Dont feel bad. It's that you weren't yourself. And the real you, deep inside, knows that there might be something better out there, waiting for you to find it.


I agree with the sentiments expressed above. I have been suicidal on a few occasions and I never felt like I was myself. It may be a cliche to say this but suicide is always a permanent solution to a problem that my or may not be permanent. Also a failed suicide is incredibly painful and traumatic for everyone involved including the person who made the attempt.

I hope everyone is feeling a little bit better after the difficult holiday period.



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04 Jan 2008, 8:15 am

I have felt suicidal, especially after a broken heart. I tried it a few times when I was 10 or something like that. (thank god it didnt work) Now I just can't do it, I love my family, and my dog too much to just leave them behind



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04 Jan 2008, 8:31 am

You don't want to die instantly. :o

You want to die as a brave, couragous fellow in a spectacular inferno explosion inside a pick-up truck being chased through a highway by southern in-breds in their trucks holding Pitchforks! ;)



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04 Jan 2008, 2:50 pm

I find that walking in the mountains alone always helps when feeling suicidal. THe scenery is so beautiful and that alone is something worth living for. Of course, at the end of the walk the problems do come back, but its worth it just to escape from them for a short while. I have often thought that if I did really want to end it all, I would just walk into the mountains and never come back, but I imagine that whilst walking I would refind my reasons for living. It makes you realise that you dont need to care what people say - that if necessary you could live alone in the mountains and see noone but the people that really care about you and still enjoy your life to the full. OK, I am slightly obsessed with mountains, but maybe there is something else that you like which can act as an equivalent - perhaps the sea, perhaps music, perhaps a sport that you like and can give a reason to stay living.
I hope this helps.