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Not trying to pick sides or start anything, but 'get over it' is usually the worst advice to give someone with depression, I think this is a case of depression. I could be wrong however. I think people should certainy try to move on and find better ways to deal with things.......but you can't really just get over mental problems. At least that's my opinion on it.

yeah

do you even want advice
what do you want from people here!?

You know, MR20, I think you give way to much of a damn. You are way to concerned with the outside world and the past. Stop caring, and start living.

I don't really see the point of this thread, given that the OP seems to reject all support and advice.

Normally, i'd totally agree.
But with the number of posts and threads the OP has made and refused to take constructive, helpful advice - what else is there left except the truth of what everyone has to do?

I'm not going to post what I really want to here.

I did but I'm editing out of respect for the forum.

MR20 you need to get help. Perhaps it's our collective fault for not understanding that you are simply complaining and desire no real changes. Most posters in The Haven are looking for encouragement or constructive advice, which you were given in spades, but rejected somewhat rudely....

You have very fixable problems and it's very frustrating to see some prefer to wallow in self pity than take simple steps to improve their situation.

It's just a waste.

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I really want to stop replying, but it irks me so I can't!

I hear ya..... in all of my years working with people on the spectrum, I've never seen anyone so determined to refuse any kind of help. Clinically it's fascinating, in reality it's sad and frustrating.

Yeah. Then again, I guess for some people it's hard to take advice from strangers.
Although, I try and take all the help I can get - from anyone.
Anything to make life easier.

one would think....
*sigh*

i am not in a well judged state of mind, but i will say that i had an associate a few years ago that was like mr 20.

he moaned and groaned and was forever dour and bitter and i thought of a little poem for him one night when i had had enough of his complaining and he hit me in the head when i sung it to him in a tune that was like a cheap commercial.

"who soever gives a f**k!
but for those that give that f**k to me?!?
no luck to f**k
just fvcked up luck
is all that i can see.
oh woe
oh woe is me."

rah dee dah dee doodly doo
doodly doo dee dee.

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i like it. it's funky.

yes i liked it too and i enjoyed singing it, but i have ODD and i have no idea how far i can go without tripping the safety catch on the ban hammer so i will withdraw from this discussion now.

Exactly. No one's saying change is gonna happen overnight, but if you're wasting all your energy whining instead of actually taking the advice and at least trying to do something then don't expect anything to get better. I still have suicidal thoughts from time to time, but since I've worked on it over the years, these thoughts are more like residue from the past than a daily struggle.

See that's it. What are you if people don't respect you? What are you if you don't have any friends? What are you if you're a ret*d and slow bum that can never get a date with a decent looking women and is destined to spend the rest his life alone?

All tell you what. Nothing. You're nothing without respect or friends. That's why I care.