sly279 wrote:
Also she's really pretty, thin, and think makes more then me as I think she's the lead for her department. All strikes against me.
Sly, those aren't strikes against you, those things are good for you. Since she's clearly interested in you those are all good qualities for her to have.
If she asks you about your college, income, home life, etc, be honest but don't try to sound too bitter or self-deprecating about it. Also don't try to sound too boastful about it. I don't think you're boastful, I just mean don't overcompensate. The two things that scare girls away are lack of confidence and arrogance, that means you must not undersell yourself or oversell yourself.
Remember that a confident guy spends more time complimenting other people than himself. Don't flatter her but if she really is pretty you can probably get away with telling her so. Instead of saying she's thin, you could say she's fit.
Anyway, she's displayed interest in you so the ball is in your court. She's expecting you to make the next move and she won't do it for you. I know NTs can be confusing but in her mind she's already sent you clear signals so if you don't act now, she'll think you're intentionally trying to tell her you're not into her.
Since she's at work you may want to maintain plausible deniability. You should ask her to go somewhere with you after work, cafe, etc. That way your lack of car won't be an issue. I'm guessing your work in town.
Anyway, best of luck to you getting to know her. It couldn't have happened to a nicer guy
Or she's just being friendly. Had this happen at my last job girl displayed all the classic flirting, touching, going out of way to say hi, friending on Fb, being playful with me, Etc, but when I tried to ask her out she said she wasn't interested in me. I don't want to repeat that and lose my new job.
There's no food near by it's a strip mall under construction. They took out all the food. There's just a bunch of big retail stores now. I liked it better as a actuall mall.