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kraftiekortie
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14 Aug 2019, 9:26 am

What he should do: is to tell us the name of the place where he might be going.

Then I, or somebody, could research it. Find out how it's rated. Read complaints about it.

In a surreal sense, you're fortunate Ezra----because you have a documented disability.

It's a little more difficult for ASS-P in that sense.



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14 Aug 2019, 9:32 am

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...Perhaps it is not clear to Ezra that I have not been regularly on-the-street homeless for a long long time. After I had my heart attack and the CHF set in :cry: , I have not been able to regularly do that.
He sees care-home people as nicer, and better situations, than I have. He speaks of doing lots of Internet there - I would tend to think of a care home as someone who, if they did stop a person from using the Internet completely, would sharply reduce the amount of time you bad for it and it's scope - People who take things away from you :( .
Likewise, they d want to force psychoactive drugs on you, literally force you, perhaps, and watch you gurgle in a chait :cry:. That would be good in their eyes.
Maybe they'd say about a person " He's not good.for anything but being on a back ward the rest of his life, as they said about me! :evil:
I walk so slow now - maybe I'm heading for a CHF heart attack. :skull:


Are saying to Ezra that you have NOT been steadily homeless for a long, long time?

From your posts it seems like you were put in an institution when you were around 21 years old. You are what 58 or 59 now? Did you have an indoors place to live most of those years after you were released?

As for learning how to do computer things, read the instructions! Google - how do I post a picture on Facebook? Right now I could not tell you how to do it, but I know I’ve posted photos on FB. If I want to do it again I’ll look up how to, on the internet.

If you want lessons, can’t you use some of your SSDI money to pay for a couple of one on one lessons? You used to go to computer labs to use the internet, can’t you get lessons at a place like that?


I know you don’t have to answer any of the questions we ask, but you seem to often avoid answering some important ones. You ask for advice and guidance, but skip over comments that question your story. You paint a picture of illness and homelessness for us, but from what you posted earlier it doesn’t sound like you have been homeless all that long.

Like I said, you don’t have to tell us anything or answer questions, but ....



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14 Aug 2019, 10:28 am

I feel like ASS-P has been "legally homeless" for a long time. Possibly 30 years or more.

There are times when he is "actually" homeless; and there are times when has shelter.

From what I could gather: When he was in Washington State about 4-5 years ago, he was "actually" homeless most of the time, sleeping in the streets. When he left Washington State for California, he was "actually" homeless for a little while, then found a place in one shelter or another.

I feel like, over the last 2 years or so, that he had some sort of shelter most of the time----whether he be in a shelter, SRO apartment, hotel, or hospital. Still not a good situation for a person who has various chronic illnesses. He was briefly in a "care home" sort of place about a year ago.

If he goes to the hospital, he loses his place in the shelter, and has to "go through the process" again. If he comes to the shelter after curfew, he's out of luck at that shelter and must find another shelter--or else he'll have to sleep in the street.

This is not a situation I would want to find myself in. He doesn't have a "home" in the real sense.

Correct me if I'm wrong, ASS-P.



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14 Aug 2019, 11:24 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
What he should do: is to tell us the name of the place where he might be going.

Then I, or somebody, could research it. Find out how it's rated. Read complaints about it.

In a surreal sense, you're fortunate Ezra----because you have a documented disability.

It's a little more difficult for ASS-P in that sense.


I do not think he needs a documented disability. His medical conditions should be more than enough.
Although it does say in his profile that he has an aspergers diagnosis.



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14 Aug 2019, 11:28 am

An Asperger's diagnosis probably wouldn't even get you SSI, no less a priority placement on an apartment waiting list.



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14 Aug 2019, 11:40 am

AnneOleson wrote:
I know you don’t have to answer any of the questions we ask, but you seem to often avoid answering some important ones. You ask for advice and guidance, but skip over comments that question your story. You paint a picture of illness and homelessness for us, but from what you posted earlier it doesn’t sound like you have been homeless all that long.

Like I said, you don’t have to tell us anything or answer questions, but ....


From 21 Nov 2014:

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...You may think I lead a more " normal " life because I manage to trudge and do an 1&1/2 hour of library computer time a day .
I am NOT .
You know , I have NEVER , in 14-15 years on the Internet , owned an at-home computer - I have been homeless (including being " one step above " homeless/temporaryaly placed/a couplish sorta " ex-homeless " places that might've , if not for...well , not now,,, worked out - For one particularly case , what I later found was a THEIVING social services organization , I'l tell you that) ~ Um , I've been homeless since mid-1996 (leaving out times before then) !


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14 Aug 2019, 11:41 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
An Asperger's diagnosis probably wouldn't even get you SSI, no less a priority placement on an apartment waiting list.


Wait doesn't he get SSDI, thus making him officially disabled?



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14 Aug 2019, 12:01 pm

He does get SSDI. I don't think that, in itself, would give him priority "disabled" status when it comes to housing.



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14 Aug 2019, 2:03 pm

...As.of now I've lost my bed after a 90 day period. Though I knew that was a possibility it was not brought up till this morning. As of now, I'll walk out the door, taking very little with me - including a change of clothes - and. once again, lace all so can't carry to perhaps never see again :( .


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14 Aug 2019, 3:44 pm

Thanks Ezra and Kraftie Korti. I thought he was homeless a long time, but that recent post made me wonder. I guess I have been considering living in a shelter as homeless, in the same way as being on the street.



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14 Aug 2019, 4:50 pm

...Yes, I've been all but 100% shelter-homeless for years now. As of now, it's approaching 3 Pam, I have just two shopping bags of stuff, including the 1 change-plus of clothes I mentioned. My clothes are clean. anyway.
I left behind other clothes. my one other pair of shoes, reading, my pills, extra bedding bought by me, not the shelter (some just yesterday) :( ...........


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One of the walking wounded ~ SMASHED DOWN by life and age, now prevented from even expressing myself! SOB.
" Oh, no! First you have to PROVE you deserve to go away to college! " ~ My mother, 1978 (the heyday of Andy Gibb and Player). I would still like to go.:-(
My life destroyed by Thorazine and Mellaril - and rape - and the Psychiatric/Industrial Complex. SOB:-(! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!


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14 Aug 2019, 4:53 pm

There are some shelters, frankly, that are actually worse than being on the street.



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14 Aug 2019, 6:23 pm

EzraS wrote:
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ASS-P wrote:
...Perhaps it is not clear to Ezra that I have not been regularly on-the-street homeless for a long long time. After I had my heart attack and the CHF set in :cry: , I have not been able to regularly do that.
He sees care-home people as nicer, and better situations, than I have. He speaks of doing lots of Internet there - I would tend to think of a care home as someone who, if they did stop a person from using the Internet completely, would sharply reduce the amount of time you bad for it and it's scope - People who take things away from you :( .
Likewise, they d want to force psychoactive drugs on you, literally force you, perhaps, and watch you gurgle in a chait :cry:. That would be good in their eyes.
Maybe they'd say about a person " He's not good.for anything but being on a back ward the rest of his life, as they said about me! :evil:
I walk so slow now - maybe I'm heading for a CHF heart attack. :skull:


Someone is supposed to come and be sure you are okay in these places. A person has the right to be able to lock their door and pay for their own internet access. I wouldn't trust it to the home though, because you just never know. But if Ezra paid his bill, locks his door, has his own equipment, how can they take it away? Are you saying they knock the door down and physically steal everything?


Nothing like that happens 99% of the time. As far as I know those places are equipped with wifi and probably cable. The more time residents spend watching tv or are on the internet, the less work it is for them (the staff).

You pay a fee just like paying rent and all your other personal bills are paid by you the way you have always paid them or had them paid.

As long as you are not flagged as a flight risk you can come and go. But you do need to check out and check back in and get back by a certain time. One of their biggest concerns is liability, so they are going to want to keep tabs on you.

Usually one gets picked up by some sort of community transit. You have probably seen small buses around like I have. And many of those are transporting seniors and disabled people.



That sounds wonderful, it's good to know you are safe. :!:


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14 Aug 2019, 6:28 pm

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...Yes, I've been all but 100% shelter-homeless for years now. As of now, it's approaching 3 Pam, I have just two shopping bags of stuff, including the 1 change-plus of clothes I mentioned. My clothes are clean. anyway.
I left behind other clothes. my one other pair of shoes, reading, my pills, extra bedding bought by me, not the shelter (some just yesterday) :( ...........



What happened? Why did you lose your bed? Did you 'time out,' meaning they rotate you out so someone else get's your bed for a break from the streets?


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14 Aug 2019, 6:29 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
There are some shelters, frankly, that are actually worse than being on the street.



I am in recovery, so I can believe that. I've heard horror stories from street addicts who slept in shelters.


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14 Aug 2019, 7:51 pm

ASS-P wrote:
...Yes, I've been all but 100% shelter-homeless for years now. As of now, it's approaching 3 Pam, I have just two shopping bags of stuff, including the 1 change-plus of clothes I mentioned. My clothes are clean. anyway.
I left behind other clothes. my one other pair of shoes, reading, my pills, extra bedding bought by me, not the shelter (some just yesterday) :( ...........


Why did you leave behind your pills!? :o Not taking your heart medication regularly is what causes you to be exhausted, retain fluids (“water weight “), and probably is responsible for your cough. That’s what congestive heart failure does to you. And don’t you take epilepsy medication now too? You shouldn’t stop it suddenly. I have epilepsy too. Do you take pills for your kidney problems too?

On a positive note, I read that Medi-Cal covers free dentures!