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12 Feb 2021, 11:52 pm

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My highschool history teacher was like this. Hed call girls blondes jokingly sometimes


I'm surprised to hear teachers still do this. When I was in primary school it was common to hear the term "Blondie" or "Ginger" coming from the teachers to describe their blonde and redhead students.

The term "blondie" was quite widespread and infact there was a popular cartoon in Australia that caricatured a female blonde character called "blondie and dagwood" that was read right up to the 1980s here in Australian newspapers and likely perpetuated the stereotype of the dumb blonde.

So not surprisingly teachers used these terms to label their students. In the 70s I heard the term blackie being used as well. There was one mixed race aboriginal girl in my primary school who the teacher used to take into the girl's bathroom to scrub her face as she mistook her swirls of facial melanin for dirt (true story).

He even called dark haired ones blondes, to say they're stupid or didn't know the answers
Actually there were 2 blondes he called blondes just as a nickname


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12 Feb 2021, 11:56 pm

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Oh, not like that. He even called dark haired ones blondes, to say they're stupid or didn't know the answers
Actually there were 2 blondes he called blondes just as a nickname

You mean brewnettes? Brewnettes. I guess they call them that because they're as dark as coffee...?



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13 Feb 2021, 3:46 pm

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Oh, not like that. He even called dark haired ones blondes, to say they're stupid or didn't know the answers
Actually there were 2 blondes he called blondes just as a nickname

You mean brewnettes? Brewnettes. I guess they call them that because they're as dark as coffee...?

Haha. Probably. Hopefully not Burnedtes


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13 Feb 2021, 5:15 pm

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I generally prefer brunettes and dark skinned women to blonds. I also like dark eyes better than blue eyes. Seems the opposite of what men stereotypically prefer.

But I guess none of that matters, since no women ever seem to want anything to do with me.



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13 Feb 2021, 5:22 pm

Rexi wrote:
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Oh, not like that. He even called dark haired ones blondes, to say they're stupid or didn't know the answers
Actually there were 2 blondes he called blondes just as a nickname

You mean brewnettes? Brewnettes. I guess they call them that because they're as dark as coffee...?

Haha. Probably. Hopefully not Burnedtes


I generally agree with that sentiment.

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14 Feb 2021, 10:06 pm

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I generally prefer brunettes and dark skinned women to blonds. I also like dark eyes better than blue eyes. Seems the opposite of what men stereotypically prefer.

But I guess none of that matters, since no women ever seem to want anything to do with me.

Just pray to God you won't get an ombre from brunette to blonde cause she will suck the life out of you and you'll end up underweight and not very squishable. Ahaha

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15 Feb 2021, 3:41 am

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But I guess none of that matters, since no women ever seem to want anything to do with me.


Just a heads up that women are programmed to be turned off by men who exude self-loathing. However if you accept your losses and be open about it then positive vibes are a chick magnet.



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15 Feb 2021, 4:17 pm

I’d have to agree with Cyberdad on that.

Women can’t stand a man who laments his “lack of success.”



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16 Feb 2021, 5:04 pm

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I’d have to agree with Cyberdad on that.

Women can’t stand a man who laments his “lack of success.”

Right, we only empathize with lament after you get our instincts going but don't make a habit out of it. We rather hear you panting rather than feel like a loser
And we wanna feel good together rather than focus on negatives. Relationships require a huge amount of positivity to combat the negativity, including talking about bad world news in the media, gotta counter balance that


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17 Feb 2021, 12:43 am

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After dating a few selfish jerks they are see the appeal of a loyal, gentle and sensitive guy who will treat them better.


Translation: They will force themselves to lower their over-expectations

Why do you see this as "lower," rather than just "different" expectations? "Loyal, gentle and sensitive" are highly desirable traits, after all, at least for some of us.


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17 Feb 2021, 1:04 am

Mona Pereth wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
aquafelix wrote:
After dating a few selfish jerks they are see the appeal of a loyal, gentle and sensitive guy who will treat them better.


Translation: They will force themselves to lower their over-expectations

Why do you see this as "lower," rather than just "different" expectations? "Loyal, gentle and sensitive" are highly desirable traits, after all, at least for some of us.


It probably depends on the individual but 99% of women will not give a man a chance to be "loyal, gentle or sensitive" if the man is a) poor b) dressed like he's poor c) not physically attractive.



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17 Feb 2021, 5:23 am

cyberdad wrote:
Mona Pereth wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
aquafelix wrote:
After dating a few selfish jerks they are see the appeal of a loyal, gentle and sensitive guy who will treat them better.


Translation: They will force themselves to lower their over-expectations

Why do you see this as "lower," rather than just "different" expectations? "Loyal, gentle and sensitive" are highly desirable traits, after all, at least for some of us.


It probably depends on the individual but 99% of women will not give a man a chance to be "loyal, gentle or sensitive" if the man is a) poor b) dressed like he's poor c) not physically attractive.

I guess it's good that 100% of the women on this site will.


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17 Feb 2021, 6:00 am

Rexi wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Mona Pereth wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
aquafelix wrote:
After dating a few selfish jerks they are see the appeal of a loyal, gentle and sensitive guy who will treat them better.


Translation: They will force themselves to lower their over-expectations

Why do you see this as "lower," rather than just "different" expectations? "Loyal, gentle and sensitive" are highly desirable traits, after all, at least for some of us.


It probably depends on the individual but 99% of women will not give a man a chance to be "loyal, gentle or sensitive" if the man is a) poor b) dressed like he's poor c) not physically attractive.

I guess it's good that 100% of the women on this site will.


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17 Feb 2021, 6:03 am

Not 100%.
Some are ace and some are gay.


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18 Feb 2021, 12:13 pm

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Not 100%.
Some are ace and some are gay.

Those might not care about looks either.


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18 Feb 2021, 2:33 pm

Rexi wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Mona Pereth wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
aquafelix wrote:
After dating a few selfish jerks they are see the appeal of a loyal, gentle and sensitive guy who will treat them better.


Translation: They will force themselves to lower their over-expectations

Why do you see this as "lower," rather than just "different" expectations? "Loyal, gentle and sensitive" are highly desirable traits, after all, at least for some of us.


It probably depends on the individual but 99% of women will not give a man a chance to be "loyal, gentle or sensitive" if the man is a) poor b) dressed like he's poor c) not physically attractive.

I guess it's good that 100% of the women on this site will.


I didn't know that! So does it mean I could have had 100% chance of getting a girlfriend IF ONLY I didn't decide to write all those stupid messages that probably turned everyone off? If only I knew that when I first came here ...