Wanting to prove my detractors wrong

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23 Apr 2018, 5:15 am

CannibalCorpse wrote:
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It has been a few weeks since you started this thread Marky Marknis - what have you been doing to prove these people wrong, and how's it going? :)


I am not letting people like goldfish tell me how to live my life. Anyone who tells me how "messed up" I am but claims he is trying to help me I refuse to ever look up to.

No reply to Yellowtamarin?


I think that was his reply. As in the thing he's doing about it is not listening to the people who he sees as his detractors.



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23 Apr 2018, 11:06 am

Fireblossom wrote:
CannibalCorpse wrote:
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yellowtamarin wrote:
It has been a few weeks since you started this thread Marky Marknis - what have you been doing to prove these people wrong, and how's it going? :)


I am not letting people like goldfish tell me how to live my life. Anyone who tells me how "messed up" I am but claims he is trying to help me I refuse to ever look up to.

No reply to Yellowtamarin?


I think that was his reply. As in the thing he's doing about it is not listening to the people who he sees as his detractors.


They claim to want to help me but at the same time punish me because I don't fit their expectations of what someone on the spectrum should follow. I also don't want my ex-friends to ever tell me "See? Told you!", especially after they judged me as being "messed up" and needed to get my head "out of your (mine) ass".



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23 Apr 2018, 11:32 am

Marknis wrote:
They claim to want to help me but at the same time punish me because I don't fit their expectations of what someone on the spectrum should follow. I also don't want my ex-friends to ever tell me "See? Told you!", especially after they judged me as being "messed up" and needed to get my head "out of your (mine) ass".


The best revenge is your own success. Start trying some of the good advice you've received and make some positive changes in yourself and your life and it won't be very long before you can share a little positivity of your own. That'll shut down all those 'tractors!


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23 Apr 2018, 2:28 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
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They claim to want to help me but at the same time punish me because I don't fit their expectations of what someone on the spectrum should follow. I also don't want my ex-friends to ever tell me "See? Told you!", especially after they judged me as being "messed up" and needed to get my head "out of your (mine) ass".


The best revenge is your own success. Start trying some of the good advice you've received and make some positive changes in yourself and your life and it won't be very long before you can share a little positivity of your own. That'll shut down all those 'tractors!


In case you are unaware , you appear to one of Marknis detractors , you appear to piss him off , do yourself & Marknis a favour and stop posting advice as it is not wanted. I'm pretty sure you mean well but you are not helping him as he is unlikely to follow any advice from you. That's what I'm seeing anyway.


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23 Apr 2018, 2:41 pm

SaveFerris wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
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They claim to want to help me but at the same time punish me because I don't fit their expectations of what someone on the spectrum should follow. I also don't want my ex-friends to ever tell me "See? Told you!", especially after they judged me as being "messed up" and needed to get my head "out of your (mine) ass".


The best revenge is your own success. Start trying some of the good advice you've received and make some positive changes in yourself and your life and it won't be very long before you can share a little positivity of your own. That'll shut down all those 'tractors!


In case you are unaware , you appear to one of Marknis detractors , you appear to piss him off , do yourself & Marknis a favour and stop posting advice as it is not wanted. I'm pretty sure you mean well but you are not helping him as he is unlikely to follow any advice from you. That's what I'm seeing anyway.


Oh, it’s definitely not just my advice he ignores. It’s any good advice at all. He seems to only want sympathy or to argue about the few posts he doesn’t like vs desiring any actual helpful advice whatsoever. Yet myself and others continue to shower him with positivity because we know he needs it most.


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23 Apr 2018, 3:00 pm

I don't see how arguing with the OP is positive.
You can't just keep hitting someone over the head with positivity and expect it to help.


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23 Apr 2018, 3:14 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
He seems to only want sympathy


Then give him what he wants and not what you think he needs , do you like pissing him off or do you just not recognize you are doing it.


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23 Apr 2018, 3:17 pm

Yes, Marknis has reported you, goldfish, asking that you stay away from his threads.

Since this is Haven, and the other thread where the actual report has occurred is also in Haven, his wish should be granted.



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23 Apr 2018, 5:33 pm

Raleigh wrote:
I don't see how arguing with the OP is positive.
You can't just keep hitting someone over the head with positivity and expect it to help.


I even tried to make it clear why it wasn't helping.

Also, I've never shot down anything from blooiejagwa, Esmerelda, kraftiekortie, Sweetleaf, yellowtamarin, Fireblossom, Zeromancer, yourself, and quite a few others.