AnanstrixG wrote:
I'm just finished. I put forth so much effort today, trying to be stable, and my wife says she's going to bed at 6:30 and it takes me a dance to make coffee because I make a gallon of coldbrew ...
f-- these details. She disrespects me in every possible day. Both of us were walking on eggshells. And I told her all day I was not feeling well in my head.
so she starts a f-ing fight with me as I'm grinding coffee. She yells some bad poop at me. And I am done writing this off to stress.
I'm getting stronger. I'm a very strong and very nice person, if a grumpy old geezer as well. I won't take guff, but I will give help when I can. So she can't take that?
Fine.
But I don't know what the hell I'll do. I guess I'll find out.
She's the over planner (which stresses me out). I just always land on my feet.
Oh I'm surrounded by over planners. I just never make plans so I just let them get on with it and I'm usually OK with whatever it is. I sometimes feel like a child or a puppy being taken for a walk because literally I just feel like I'm tagging along. I mean it's probably not as bad as it might sound because I do do all the stuff I like to do as well but I'm just not a planner.
My daughter has everything planned to the last detail and my bf is a big fan of planning. When they get together I just switch off to it and tell them to let me know when they're done.
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