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15 Aug 2019, 8:01 am

ASS-P, I feel, fears the “being put out to pasture” aspect of care homes. He feels like he would languish in that setting. I feel there must be a way for him to be able to go out and be away from the place sometimes.

Then there are the rules. It’s hard for a long-term homeless person to be in a rules-based place. Though the rules frequently are to his benefit.

Still, it’s much better than being homeless and staying in shelters. And constantly getting your stuff stolen and being treated like crap for being homeless.



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15 Aug 2019, 8:03 am

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I wish he would get a place that would enable him to get Burger King or something like that once in a while.

Sometimes, the food in these care home type places makes you want to do Burger King.

Even though Burger King isn’t really all that good for him.

I wish the food in hospitals, nursing homes, and the like were better.

If I had to live on that food, I would ache for Popeye’s. Or Tim Horton’s.

Still, even the care home food is sometimes better than soup kitchen food.


If I were able to go places on my own I do not think I would have any problem getting a shuttle to take me to the mall where I could eat at the food court. There are also food places dotted all around it.

Saying that just made me want to get a lamb gyro at the Mediterranean place at the food court. Very tasty and satisfying and only $7.99 including a drink.



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15 Aug 2019, 8:06 am

Yep. Make sure the place has a shuttle.



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15 Aug 2019, 8:08 am

If he doesn’t like the rules, he can rant about them here on WP.



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15 Aug 2019, 8:15 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
ASS-P, I feel, fears the “being put out to pasture” aspect of care homes. He feels like he would languish in that setting. I feel there must be a way for him to be able to go out and be away from the place sometimes.

Then there are the rules. It’s hard for a long-term homeless person to be in a rules-based place. Though the rules frequently are to his benefit.

Still, it’s much better than being homeless and staying in shelters. And constantly getting your stuff stolen and being treated like crap for being homeless.


Unless someone is a flight risk they can leve their care home to go places the same as someone leaving their house in the burbs to go wherever. There are shuttles that pick people up at care homes and take them places.

I can understand someone wanting to be completely free. However that freedom is described as a living hell of agonizing walking all over while carrying stuff and scrambling to get from one place to the next.

And at least he has had all those years of said feedom. I will be "locked up" for life.



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15 Aug 2019, 8:22 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Yep. Make sure the place has a shuttle.


The place will not have a shuttle but the county has shuttles. But like I said, I can not use the shuttle to go off on my own so it does not matter for me.

Care homes do not have a bunch of rules. They are not run like a penitentiary.



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15 Aug 2019, 8:30 am

If ASS-P has Internet on his phone, even the primitive Obamaphones, he can certainly do research addressing whether a care home place is "certified."

For some reason, I don't sense that a social worker would have placed ASS-P in a non-certified care home. Potentially, that would have caused problems for the social worker.

There are Daniels in the world, certainly. Who take advantage of people who are in a bind.



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15 Aug 2019, 9:59 am

There are "rules" in these care home places.

Simple rules, mostly.....like you have to make your bed every morning, and clean up after yourself when you make a mess.

You might have to help with the communal cleanup of the care home, too.



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15 Aug 2019, 10:03 am

I personally do not care if the place I end up in is certified or not. I do not see what difference that would make in my daily living there.

I am not so sure Daniel was a bad guy.



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15 Aug 2019, 10:19 am

If a place is "certified," this means they are held more accountable for the treatment given to its residents.

This means there is less potential for abuse of residents, because of this accountability.

I don't believe abuse in care homes is rampant----but it does happen.



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15 Aug 2019, 10:25 am

I would be more concerned about that if I was unable to report abuse.
In my case the minute I started getting abused I would be calling the police.



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15 Aug 2019, 5:20 pm

....I don't feel like going into the Daniel home's faults one .ore time.
Ezra is apparently able to check on places, is confident that he's found a decent one. I guess. and has a caring family behind him.
All of that is good.


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15 Aug 2019, 6:28 pm

If the hospital in San Francisco is going to find a place for ASS-P, that's good. But at the risk of sounding like a stuck record, here is what I have found to be true:

1. There are subsidized housing and wait lists all over Northern California and elsewhere, but in the bigger cities, those wait lists can be 5 to 10 years long. Smaller cities have smaller wait lists, say, 1 to 2 years.

2. There are homeless shelters all over Northern California, and elsewhere, in the bigger cities; in smaller cities, not so much, unless the population is around, say, 10K to 15K.

3. That said, I'd look into moving into a Northern California town of around 10K to 15K that has both a men's shelter and subsidized housing. One that comes to mind is Healdsburg, CA, pop. 11K. They have a men's shelter. Their senior/disabled apartments, Fitch Mountain Terrace, goes for $869/month and their wait list is currently open.

Just my $.02

https://www.apartmentratings.com/ca/hea ... 621195448/

https://www.suntopia.org/windsor/ca/hom ... elters.php



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15 Aug 2019, 6:36 pm

ASS-P wrote:
....I don't feel like going into the Daniel home's faults one .ore time.
Ezra is apparently able to check on places, is confident that he's found a decent one. I guess. and has a caring family behind him.
All of that is good.


Pretty much all the ones I have checked on, including those in Patterson are fine. All much better than shelters and the street.



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15 Aug 2019, 6:42 pm

redrobin62 wrote:
If the hospital in San Francisco is going to find a place for ASS-P, that's good. But at the risk of sounding like a stuck record, here is what I have found to be true:

1. There are subsidized housing and wait lists all over Northern California and elsewhere, but in the bigger cities, those wait lists can be 5 to 10 years long. Smaller cities have smaller wait lists, say, 1 to 2 years.

2. There are homeless shelters all over Northern California, and elsewhere, in the bigger cities; in smaller cities, not so much, unless the population is around, say, 10K to 15K.

3. That said, I'd look into moving into a Northern California town of around 10K to 15K that has both a men's shelter and subsidized housing. One that comes to mind is Healdsburg, CA, pop. 11K. They have a men's shelter. Their senior/disabled apartments, Fitch Mountain Terrace, goes for $869/month and their wait list is currently open.

Just my $.02

https://www.apartmentratings.com/ca/hea ... 621195448/

https://www.suntopia.org/windsor/ca/hom ... elters.php


Healdsburg looks quite nice.



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15 Aug 2019, 10:16 pm

...This line started because. after I had been hanging around SF wsiting for the promised windfall money to come in, I was told that the Package Boatd, etcetera. had intercepted that money. Noe I am trying to appeal that/do something about it with help from a legal outfit here.
I was mistaken about losing the bed at thr shelter and the possessions I left there. At this. (Aug 15 point I still have both.


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