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I used to rather Big but i have slimmed as part of my new years resolution.

NOW girls that wouldn't even look at me when i was fat want to talk to me and be my friend.

All that has changed is my weight. I'm still the loner who sits by himself.

I mean it feels good to have a stranger to call me sexy but if people are that shallow i would rather be fat and friendless.

When in masses I would say yes, seperate them and you will get a better idea. I took many of failed attempts till I met my wife. Someone gets you... They are out there.

Get over it!

You have done a good thing and lost weight. Be proud of yourself.

If girls or guys look at a fat person and say "here is a loser" are they wrong?

Would you pick a loser to be your girlfriend?

If girls now see you as "partner material" then you are back on track.

Enjoy it.

Yes, people are that shallow. Many of those people that are interested in your physical appearance will be driven away by your eccentricities.


But there might be a few good people who actually want to be your friend for who you are.

You just have to be wise enough to know the difference.

Congratulations on losing weight. Don't let your disappointment cause you to gain it back. You have opened doors of opportunity to socialization. Both to shallow people and to good people.