Im sure my mum hates me

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Shes always depressed and dull, she never seems to be happy around me. Shes been angry nonstop with me the last 2 months, but intensified a couple of days ago...

I have a somewhat odd special interest. Im interested in gas masks, (mainly the historical part). Recently, with my birthday money (which i have the right to spend on whatever) I bought one. Shes been really angry with me, shes saying she wished she had a normal kid. She never smiles at me or is nice to me like she used to be. She just sees me as a problem cos im not a dimwitted NT like the rest of them.

My dad is a little more understanding, and my older sister is very understanding.

I cant be around my mum without her shouting at me about my special interest. I wish i were dead sometimes, but i cant tell them how i feel cos they just call me a "whiner"

I know how you feel. I know my dad may not hate me but he is kinda like your mum. As for my mum, she's not like your mum but my mum does hate me for me being an Aspie. Even my lil'bro and all my maternal relatives hate me aswell for being an Aspie.

I am truly sorry your going through this. Its sad when a parent does things like that.

I can understand this, one of my parents seems distant and sometimes critical, I am in the fortunate position of not having to see her at all as she lives in another part of the country.

Do you think she may have autistic traits? If she sees herself in the way you are, she could find that upsetting.

I hope you can find a way of keeping yourself a little distant from her and maybe closer to your older sister whilst she is struggling, her husband and daughter seem to be there for her.

Its so sad when parents appear to be unloving, I hope this situation doesn't go on for too much longer.