Looking for Sympathy and Attention

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There is no help for me so why not?

So what's happening with you?

I hate my ignoramus sister. She says "No one wants to buy your crap on E-bay," and claims she knows every possesion I have. I knew she was ignorant, but sheesh!

I cried all night long and some wee hours into the morning. My mom tried to ground me off the computer and my sister says you people are stupid anyway. She thinks you're all 16 year olds. Well, some of you are VERY smart, I have to admit. She said if I was lonely then watch TV. Bull crap! TV can not give me words of support or comfort. But I did decide to watch Barney and Friends for comfort. Then I started crying again so I induced vomiting to distract myself from tears, then passed out in my bed.

What kind of crap are you selling on ebay? I might like to look at it, so please give me an address to your items.

Yeah, right. You wouldn't be interested such kiddie things. Isntead of selling things, I should just throw half away and dump the other half in Goodwill and just sell my body instead.

well you have attention.. good luck with the sympathy.

Never mind that now. The human race is uncaring (and I wish to join them). I just hope to be heckled now.

*cries buckets*

*Gets more buckets to hold more of my tears*

Considering I'm hideous... I have a chance to be more bitter.

"I just hope to be heckled now."

I almost feel obligated to post now (I know, bad timing for a bad joke...).

On a more serious note: what's wrong? feel free to vent, and if you need someone to talk to, you're more than welcome to pm me.

Things will get better. No matter how tired you get of hearing that, it's true.

-David

Now I've reached my angry phase, I really do hate being young and full of energy and lack of experience. I wonder what my life would be like 3 years from now.

actually, by your age, i had some 2-3 more years of feeling like utter s**t.

your getting closer to your oh so desired state of apathetic cynical cold and cruel sarcasm! :]

It's a little hard to heckle you if you do it for everyone (a very good defense mechanism), 2-3 years down the road, you'll want a poker face (being able to hide your intentions from plain view). I don't have the perfect poker face myself, but if you throw on some shades, you'll be harder to read (and you can look wherever you want). I don't get any sympathy when I want it, I just get taken down a peg for feeling sorry for myself. But I can see your situation and I can tell you I'd hate it too, your older sister has to put you down for a lousy reason, if she wants to tell you to stop using e-bay, she can do it without coming off as a total prick. You don't have to yell at her, just give her a little sarcasm back.

If someone told me that I was doing something stupid, I'd just say "Sorry, I don't speak tricknasty, were you trying to tell me something?"

My roomates stole my x-box 360 and my cigarettes, in place of it I got some used tampons and 2 empty cigarette boxes. If they try to get a reaction out of that I'll just say "Thanks for the DNA, I've had my share though" (we had that kind of history), perfect guy perspective, but I can't tell you how to smart off to a guy as a girl (or maybe I'm just too scared to tell you how).

Ok, you've got my attention. What is the real problem? It's hard to have sympathy when I don't know what you are feeling.

That's just it, when you unlayer your feelings, you find another feeling as a causative factor. She's upset but she knows that expressing her discontentment is only going to get her attacked and questioned on this site, this starts the slow long proccess of understanding the mechanics behind your feelings, it can lead to a confused and mistrusting state and this is basically where you'll go when you feel confused and mistrusting (we're all at a safe distance here).

I do the same thing by bringing my problems here and being as straight up as I can about them, I don't like getting my feelings attacked, but people will be people and I just have to defend my feelings, my actions can speak for themselves.

There isn't any one wrong thing here, it's kind of like a quantum science or juggling, you just realize that when you adress one problem, a few others might show up. Don't be afriad to give out advice though, everyone here is looking for some kind of help.