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Mutanatia
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23 Aug 2009, 6:52 pm

What I want for my birthday (keep in mind, this is from my perspective and I’m trying not to offend anyone):

I want you guys to go on a year’s cruise AND STAY THERE.
Failing that:
I want my mom to stop making snarky comments to me about “You’re impossible” or “Unbelievable.” This hurts my feelings tremendously and doesn’t help things. The same holds true for when I ask my brother to stop something when he is upsetting me (whether he means to or not).
I want my brother to actually share things with me. For instance, I didn’t want to keep the stupid game, I just wanted to use it until he wanted to use it. No big deal.
I want my brother to STOP THE SARCASM. It hurts my feelings, offends me, and makes me want to cry every time he starts in. I take things LITERALLY, and what he does hurts me terribly.
I want my brother to STOP PUTTING ME DOWN! I feel as though he hates me, and it wrecks my day each and every time. I don’t see how he can say that he cares for me when he does things like this and the above.
I want my mom to STOP USING HER LOUD VOICE, especially when I am RIGHT NEXT TO YOU! It makes me feel as though you are PISSED at me, for no good reason and, on top of that, my ears are very sensitive, so it hurts my ears.

Failing that:
Wireless, powerful noise-canceling headphones. This way:
A) My mom’s loud voice will no longer seem as loud
B) I won’t be able to hear my brother
C) I will actually be at peace with myself



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23 Aug 2009, 7:20 pm

Mutanatia wrote:
What I want for my birthday (keep in mind, this is from my perspective and I’m trying not to offend anyone):

I want you guys to go on a year’s cruise AND STAY THERE.
Failing that:
I want my mom to stop making snarky comments to me about “You’re impossible” or “Unbelievable.” This hurts my feelings tremendously and doesn’t help things. The same holds true for when I ask my brother to stop something when he is upsetting me (whether he means to or not).
I want my brother to actually share things with me. For instance, I didn’t want to keep the stupid game, I just wanted to use it until he wanted to use it. No big deal.
I want my brother to STOP THE SARCASM. It hurts my feelings, offends me, and makes me want to cry every time he starts in. I take things LITERALLY, and what he does hurts me terribly.
I want my brother to STOP PUTTING ME DOWN! I feel as though he hates me, and it wrecks my day each and every time. I don’t see how he can say that he cares for me when he does things like this and the above.
I want my mom to STOP USING HER LOUD VOICE, especially when I am RIGHT NEXT TO YOU! It makes me feel as though you are PISSED at me, for no good reason and, on top of that, my ears are very sensitive, so it hurts my ears.

Failing that:
Wireless, powerful noise-canceling headphones. This way:
A) My mom’s loud voice will no longer seem as loud
B) I won’t be able to hear my brother
C) I will actually be at peace with myself
my dad's the loud (he's half deaf, no wonder) snarky (but why that, IDK) one in my family and my little bro's the same as yours pretty much. except he's an annoying smartass who can't seem to understand the word stop. i've had to forcefully make him stop 'cause i can get pretty effing pissed off if that load of BS continues much longer. if he persists, fists will fly. and i make a point to let him know it. if he ignores warnings when he knows the consequence from prior experiences then in my opinion he's just ret*d. and he's NT, so he can't hide behind not understanding.


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