We've (me and my bf) just moved into an apartment near to where we are going to college and it's a disaster. The 'flatmates' are really strange and controling, also they are constantly lying and bitching about my bf.
They've an on-suite and said when they were showing the apartment that the bathroom was basicly our on-suite. So we move in and set the bathroom up to our requirements, towels, toothbrushes, soap etc. and we had to go for a few days. We came back and all of the stuff from the bathroom was in a bag outside our room (bear in mind that they have their own bathroom). We asked why they did that, and they got shirty and really rude, so my bf got angry (on both my and his account) and when he spoke he tried to speak in a friendly manner but an annoyed tone showed. She responded to this by saying 'I'm getting angry now', in a tone you'd use with a misbehaving two year old.
She said that she felt threatened and the cheek of us leaving our stuff in the bathroom (that they don't use), that she said was ours when showing us the place. I'm just so angry.
They also are making snide comments about my bf to me and keep saying how much they like me (and not him). And saying that all the furniture was theirs and how hard it was to place the telly, when all the apartments are furnished the same (with the same t.v.). I really hate it there and I don't like them. We're giving them our months notice this evening.
I'm almost 27, she's just out of her twenties so I do understand that I'm not really dealing with a mature adult here (though to be clear, I know that mature twenty somthings exist, she's just not one of them). I do sometimes doubt my own maturity but I can see that I'm more mature that this girl.
I really angry about this situation. I hate how they have lied and lied, and I hate that we've lost savings because of these people. Thank you for reading my vent.
25 Aug 2009, 9:53 am
