Have you had any upsetting dreams?

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zeldapsychology
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21 Oct 2009, 8:53 pm

Last night I dreamed of a friend. She wasn't doing anything specific and I'm not even sure if I was with her but she was there. It was odd. A couple weeks ago mom mention she might come back for Christmas and I said I didn't want to see her. (I'm still upset over the College issue and she's in College) so it stirs up emotions. :-( Plus while we are friends we haven't hung out etc. for YEARS! (although I have seen her here/there (last time was about 2 years ago so we aren't that close anymore) :-( So WP have any of you had any weird dreams and is it wrong how I feel with College etc. It does get me upset and like I said we aren't that close anymore :-(



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21 Oct 2009, 9:32 pm

personally i don't see what's wrong with college or what there is to take personally about it :? .

but yeah, i've had an upsetting dream before. possibly the only truly upsetting dream i've had before that wasn't scary, but just sad.

in my dream everyone i'd ever known was scattered throughout the gymnasium of my elementary school. which in the dream was big enough to accomodate everyone in a surreal way. i was there too. suddenly everyone began to pair off into couples and run away as a group in a single direction, and i was left there standing alone. it was no longer in the gym but the setting had transformed subtlely into a wide open expanse in the course of the action. i ran with, or rather, after them vaguely aware that i had no partner but trying to keep up nonetheless.

and then i woke up feeling very lonely and profoundly sad.
it's one of the few dreams i've ever had with any clarity and that i've managed to remember so clearly, as usually i forget my dreams before i wake or only remember small fragments.
and it was the only singular dream i've ever had that seemed to clearly be a subconscious message, or perhaps a reflection thereof.

the the elementary school in it dredged up memories of my childhood, the fact of the people contained in it brought memories of my present and only recent past and time in between. and the actions presented in it brought to light fears for my future.

it was a deeply troubling dream that i doubt i am ever likely to forget. :?


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21 Oct 2009, 11:23 pm

Yeah, I just had a dream about 3 nights ago, where I was riding a city bus. I had fallen asleep, and when I woke, I was the only person left on the bus. Worse, the bus was stopped in someplace that I didn't even recognize, and when I looked out the window, there was nothing but green; and a large clearing, with a row of trees behind it. Trees were on all sides. It looked like either early morning or dusk; everything looked dim and there was mist rising from the ground. I saw the bus driver look back at me, and then he got up and hurried toward me. I was convinced that he was going to harm me, and there was nobody else around for me to ask for help. I forced myself awake, terrified. It all seemed so real.


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22 Oct 2009, 4:57 am

I dreamt that my boyfriend died..............I cried myself back to sleep.


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22 Oct 2009, 11:45 pm

About 1 or 2 years ago i had a depressing and upsetting dream. In the dream everyone hated me. My grandmother screamed at me in that dream. I was running somewhere. Away from hate. Away from everyone. But i couldn't make it. Suddenly i woke up. Everyone else was sleeping. I went to bathroom. I started to feel hopeless, depressed. Everything felt so dark and dead. I felt like trapped in a box with no way out. I didn't cry because i felt somewhat numb. Like i'd lost everything. I felt like the whole world hated me and wanted me to disappear.



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23 Oct 2009, 4:16 am

The most recent troubling dream I had recently, was of a homeless person asking for change at an intersection as I was waiting for the red light to turn green.Instead of giving him change to buy his drugs or booze, I close my vehicle window, but I can't go anywhere since the light is still red.I put my vehicle into park, so if he did manage to break glass and come at me, i wouldnt endanger others by hitting the gas by accident.The guy is hitting and pounding a way at my vehicle leaving some damage.I am thinking...how much will my insurance premiums go up if I claim it?How will the insurance company sue this guy if he is arrested and will the Red Deer RCMP do anything about it?Suddenly the light turns green, and I hit the gas but steer away from the guy as I do so I dont injure him and get charged with hit and run.I drive towards the police station, but then my alarm clock goes off and tis time to get ready for class and I wake up.


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23 Oct 2009, 4:19 am

I had dreams about a woman I had pursued a while back. In reality, I haven't heard from her in almost a year, and that's what was upsetting about them.


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